@pet_r1ch0r Work at a underpaid job every free moment they have so that they can pay $800/month rent to their parents who own the house they live in together just so that it can be spent on luxurious vacations they donβt get to join in on, obviously.
@missguided_____ A lot of them hate who they are, feel they are βbadβ, have a desire to run from the past etc so the solution is to become βunrecognizableβ. Get near one of these people as see through the facade they put up publically and they become VERY hostile VERY quickly.
@missguided_____ It can be self harm but also because they donβt want to be βseenβ. The layer of piercings, tattoos, (often also contacts & wigs) makes them feel like theyβre being looked at through a screen rather than rawly as they are by others. Itβs insecurity & self loathing.
I wish twitter showed private tweets because a lot of my recent posts even low traction ones have a single private retweet and it seems likely someone is malding on me in private like a coward lmfao
@stewartesss Itβs bc these people are so insecure & obsessed with sex they see it as a marker for value. The more fucked up thing you do with someone = higher value, to them. OP is bragging because they think it makes them appear desirable & they must remind you at all times they are desired.
@hvmestarr Itβs pretty normal but also most productions have more than one copy of the same wig/outfit during production. Homelander was frequently bloody so very likely there are multiple suits. Iβm sure at least one will end up preserved.
@lunachainsaw Thing I realized is when you look at this sort of person they will have thousands of posts like this. Maybe absolute garbage but at a point you have to admire how much time they spend making their βartβ. Can we really judge? Whenever I feel lazy I think of them as motivation.
They did me a few favors and for years held it over my head as evidence I was a bad person and βusing themβ by having them do a quick pickup once in a while or lend $10 in return. These people are inherently selfish and enjoy creating situations where they can feel like a victim.
People donβt get that no oneβs βtakingβ anything. I βtakeβ from a people pleaser only what I would be okay to return. If asked to give the same things I would happily do so. But the people pleaser doesnβt happily give. They build resentment & believe they owe no one common favors
People who bitch about people pleasers can never tell you why they let the people pleasing happen though. Like why did you take and take and take what the people pleaser was giving you if you think its so intrinsically manipulative?
I was friends with a self described people pleaser in 2020 who I was regularly driving an hour to visit, bringing & buying food, lending money, doing favors for, moved them for free, helping them with emotional troubles etc as a friend should be expected to do.