an absence of harm doesn’t mean there was a presence of kindness. just because someone wasn’t cruel or outright abusive, it doesn’t mean they were treating you with care and consideration.
I think my biggest pet peeve is somebody playing on my intelligence.. like I'm clueless? Or like I don't be paying attention..or like I can't put two and two together.. or like I don’t be listening.. or like you can pull one over on me...
You dont have to be productive all the time. The truth is, you are still productive when you are resting. Self care is productive for your soul. You deserve it