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[Nanya🌸💕 @Nany_aaa]

“Send aza” —— words of affirmation

“I have sent it” —— words of confirmation

[ℴ𝓎𝒾𝓃𝓀𝒶𝓃𝓈ℴ𝓁𝒶♡⃕ @yinkanbaby]

“shandalias”

[Kevwe @kevwe_od]

Male doctors on this app will tweet irresponsible things about women’s health under the guise of “education.”
Banger boys and idiots will piggyback off said tweets, using it as a launching pad for misogyny and misinformation.
Such irresponsible and unethical behavior.

[Olori🍒 @OloriOfOloriss]

When they make you complain about the same thing over and over again with no change.

[Gbemisola Taiwo @MisolaofJesus]

As a chronic complainer, I try to hold my mouth sometimes because if I start, there’s literally nothing I won’t complain about.

[Dej.🌴 @ayodejia_]

Women without children.
Women without husbands.
Women with one child.
Women with only female children.
Women with.
Women without.
Women.

[Tall Sandy @D_tall_Sandyy]

In case you haven't met me in real life,

I frown when I walk.

[Big Linds👑 @creamlyn_]

How? You can’t even afford a simple birthday photoshoot

[STARRBBIE!👼💜 @go_ayra]

One thing about Ayra is that she'd give her flowers loudly and genuinely her legends/inspirations can't say same for what you Stan😂

[BLESSED 🥷 @Dee_9889]

She Hid Her 12-Year-Old Daughter in a Ditch for Nine Months to Save Her From Boko Haram

In August 2014, Zainabu Hamayaji made a decision that would keep her daughter alive but force the young girl to spend nine months hidden underground.

Hassana was only 12 years old. Her mother feared that Boko Haram fighters would abduct her and force her to become a child bride.

To protect her, Zainabu hid her in a deep ditch behind their home in Madagali, Adamawa State, Nigeria.

Then, she did something that made the plan even more extraordinary.

She pretended to be mentally ill so the insurgents would leave her family alone.

When Boko Haram invaded Madagali, families faced a terrifying choice. People who tried to escape were being killed, and Zainabu witnessed the violence firsthand.

Her husband was among those killed.

She was left trying to protect her children in a town controlled by the same fighters she feared would take her eldest daughter away.

Zainabu had heard that the insurgents were looking for young girls to marry. When they learned she had a daughter of marriageable age, they came to her home.

She denied having such a daughter, but they did not believe her.

They beat her repeatedly. Her shoulder was dislocated, and she lost a tooth during the attacks.

Zainabu realised that simply denying Hassana's existence would not be enough. She needed to make the fighters believe there was something about her family that made it dangerous to interfere with them.

So she began acting as though she had lost her sanity.

She loosened her hair, stripped off her clothes and wandered around the community. She rolled in rubbish and smeared herself with urine and faeces.

The woman who had once lived an ordinary life was deliberately making herself an object of avoidance.

The insurgents returned repeatedly to check whether her behaviour was genuine. Each time, Zainabu continued the act.

Her younger children helped her maintain the deception. When the fighters questioned them about their mother's behaviour, they insisted that she had been mentally unwell for a long time and had previously visited a psychiatric hospital.

The children were frightened, but they played their part.

Eventually, the insurgents began to believe the story.

According to Zainabu's account, they feared that harming a mentally ill woman or taking her child could bring a curse upon them. They even left a warning on the family's house telling other fighters not to attack them.

But while Zainabu was trying to convince the insurgents that she was mentally unstable, Hassana was facing a different kind of ordeal.

She was living inside a ditch.

Her mother had prepared the hiding place with supplies, including food, water and matches. Hassana had to cook and manage her basic needs in the confined space. She also had to find a way to dispose of her waste.

For nine months, the ditch became her hiding place.

She could not simply walk outside whenever she wanted. Her safety depended on remaining hidden while her mother continued the deception above ground.

It was an extraordinary burden for a child who should have been able to live without fear of being abducted and forced into marriage.

Zainabu kept up the act, despite the beatings and the physical injuries she had suffered.

Then, in March 2015, Nigerian soldiers recaptured Madagali from Boko Haram.

When the soldiers encountered Zainabu, they were suspicious. They wanted to know how she had survived in the occupied town and questioned whether she had been married to a Boko Haram fighter.

She denied it and explained what she had done to protect her children.

The soldiers did not immediately believe her.

So she took them to the hiding place.

When they opened the ditch, Hassana was there.

After nine months underground, the 12-year-old girl was finally brought out of hiding.

The soldiers took the family to a camp for displaced people in Gwoza, where Zainabu later told her story to journalists.

[Habibat Sanusi @habibatsanusi]

She said ‘since we are being foolish’ 😂😂😂😂

[ys👅 @acca_ish]

This generation of men thinks being nonchalant is a flex lmao. you’ll definitely get what you deserve.

[AJ @joyale__]

“My runaway love”
Idiot!

[JOY (GUNNER)✨|PLAIN TEES AND UNISEX JEANS VENDOR @MzXtraordinare]

I have a friend who lost her husband barely 3 years into marriage

They buried him in their family house where she and him lived and I know how many times we had to go and carry her from the grave and I was there with her for two weeks

The first night rain fell and she ran into the rain and started shouting that rain is beating him and that we shouldn’t sleep

It was such a dramatic period for her and she was pregnant and she lost the baby because of it

We had to take her out of there barely a month later because she was sleeping on the grave every night

That’s why this whole talk is triggering cos I saw first hand what it did to her

She never recovered

Wo abeg

[🕊️🧣۶ৎ erenswife² ۶ৎ🧣🕊️ @bleh6en]

I FOUND THE RECIPE

[Assignment Writer @Oliii_baby]

Calling your partner “co-founder” >>>

[dani.⭐️ @chukwunonyerem_]

last week, i paid for my mom’s hair and this morning i just sent 400 naira to my moniepoint to join the 600 naira so i can buy 3.2gb.
adulthood crazy gan.😂

[𝓢𝓾𝓬𝓬𝔂 🎀 @succykelly]

She always clears on Getty Images, no bad angles, no misses.

[preye🤎 @tessysmitha]

Sending your woman to prove you have control over her is insane. I love how she refused to feed his ego.

[Modesayo @ModexArt]

Done ✅
MS. PAPER lens on Snapchat 👨🏾‍💻💰💸

https://t.co/Ggu6nP8v0l