I think Nigerians in SA need to actually think of leaving that country. There is no way in hell you should remain in a country that hates you that much. I honestly do not think it's worth it. Stop marrying their people and having children with them. Cut your losses and leave
โข The second is when you start to know the imperfections of the person, meaningless fights start, (this stage is the most difficult since they are not always willing to fix things and that is why they quit). People discover things about themselves and decided to leave.
explaining why youโre being sad for no reason.. explaining to friends & family that u have a heavy feeling in your chest for no reason.. explaining to understand why you're having a panic attack
I donโt understand how people stay in relationships over 3 years and thereโs no sign of marriage. I personally donโt have that much patience to be your girlfriend for so long cause you still figuring yourself out, clearly you donโt like me like that
A girl on tik tok just said "I would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect" and I think that a lot of people need to take that and really engrave it into their soul.