My ultimate goal is to be at peace with myself, eliminate toxic feelings and elements and energies from my life, unlearn negative and harmful practices and thought patterns, stop checking for people that don’t check for me, create a space for myself that is nurturing for growth.
“We will cancel simi”
You didn’t cancel naira Marley
You didn’t cancel odumodu
You didn’t cancel burna boy
But it is the woman that is talking against rape that has your panties in a bunch lol
If you keep choosing comfort, you’re also choosing the consequences of staying the same.
Growth isn’t loud. Change isn’t glamorous. It’s boring, repetitive, and lonely sometimes.
But so is regret.
Choose your hard.
"Why shouldn't I expect FIDELITY from a man who stood & took a vow with me?", "Why shouldn't a man expect that if a woman took a vow with him she has eyes on him alone" — Preach it mama!!
Get you an older woman to be your close friend. One that you preferably look up to. One that cares. You’ll be in awe of the wisdom/femininity/confidence she’ll impart on you. Older women are gold.
"You're tired and he needs to eat, go the extra mile and do the food for him. You're tired and he needs to make love, go the extra mile and satisfy him.” — Prophetess advises a bride at her wedding.