A man will bring his side chicks into his matrimonial home, let his wife feed and entertain them, then people will call her a “good woman” because she doesn’t complain.
Imagine how much disrespect a woman must swallow before society finally gives her the award for “wife material.”
Most men don’t want a peaceful wife. They want a wife who has learnt to suffer quietly.
When did enduring disrespect become a badge of honour for women?
“l've always had guys tell me that since women work now it's better to just do separate checks on the first date”
Men helping other men stay single is the real loneliness epidemic.
Her sons will tomorrow be looking for wives like their mother while her daughters will dislike men. She most likely will share her pains with her daughters warning them of men like their father while forgetting to share her pains with her sons and they will grow up romanticizing the abusive relationship their mother was in.
All in all society will be dumped with broken children who become broken adults and unless they are deliberate in breaking the chains will continue the brokenness!
I got called “aff” when I moved here just 11 years ago, by Nigerians! It really affected how I interacted with people socially and not to mention how cliquey people were (and still are tbh)
Also to the British born Africans, some of you took part in bullying immigrants from your own country, you lot need to take accountability for that too cos that is shameful
This week’s episode is what we call a BANGER!!! 💥
And It’s with the one and only Damilola Adesina AKA Arike Alaso AKA Awoyaya Beyonce!
We get into everything from her life in the fabric industry and her move back to Nigeria, to motherhood, dating, faith and what the future looks like for her and her business.
As usual, we get into some deeply unserious dilemmas about being in an open relationship with your husband and stalking a man who didn’t even match you back on a dating app.
Full episode out on streaming platforms tomorrow! 🫵🏾❤️
This is how they produce a large generation of subservient citizens.
Nigerian institutions, both private and government are built to destroy any atom of confidence in the minds of young Nigerians.
Then he picks any woman who is available and marry. Five years later, he is on a podcast about how she only has inner beauty and is not really his spec
I admire her ability to think and react so fast 😭 Me, it would take me hours later, in the shower, to suddenly realize I should’ve grabbed the wrapper and thrown it away like she did.
I did core exercises yesterday in the gym and all I have to say is thank God for flat stomach.
Is this what people are going through???😭😭😭
I can’t even laugh properly 😭
If there is anything God can do for me right now it is to grant my wife perfect healing. This lady is a responsible and supportive wife who has never left me alone in carrying our responsibilities I pray that God sets her free from this sickness and restores her health completely