his final gift to you is repeating the same pattern one last time, so you can finally see that despite all his potential, promises, and excuses, this is the person he chooses to be.
Dating is so much better now that Im no longer focused on if someone “likes” me. Truth is people can say they like you all they want & still not have the capacity to be who you need. If im not enjoying how im being treated or the experience of the situation, I move on.
Some men really expect access to a peaceful woman while bringing absolutely nothing but inconsistency, confusion, and "I'm trying" speeches to the table.
let your final act of love be the silence that they always wanted. no more begging for their time, replies or effort. step back and let them feel the space where your love used to be. and you, heal.
my mom once told me “accountability will always feel like an attack when you are not ready to acknowledge how your behavior harms others” and that shit is real.