Yall be choosing ur friends over ur significant other every chance u get and than wonder why ur in bed lonely everynight. I get it keep ur friends close, but who do u buy ur first home with? - have kids with? - live with? - see everyday? - build with? Fix ur priorities.
I want anniversaries. I want someone to look at me and can't imagine life without me. I want unconditional love. I want healthy communication. I want the fireworks that never die. Butterflies even after we're months/years in. I want year(s) with someone.
If your relationship doesn't make you feel loved, relaxed, and safe then it's not healthy for you. Your partner should remove stress from your life. NOT consistently add stress. Your partner should be your safe place. Not the root of your pain and fear and heartache. Know that.
you deserve a healthy love with someone who hears you, sees you, understands you, appreciates you, supports you, and loves you. someone who is patient, communicates clearly, and creates a calm safe space to heal, grow, and bloom together. a love you don’t have to heal from