make sure your life is full of “i can't believe i actually did that” moments, not “i wish i would've done that” regrets. take the trip. start the thing. tell them you love them. do the scary thing while you're still scared. you're going to regret things either way, so make sure some of your regrets come from taking the chance, not from never taking it.
You're unhappy because you do nothing worth being proud of. You haven't done anything hard in months. You haven't made anything. Fought for anything. Dared anything. You coast, consume, complain, and repeat. Then you wonder why life feels empty. Fulfillment comes from building something that outlives your moods.
The impact you make on others is bigger than you think. Someone laughs every time they think of that funny thing you said. Someone smiles when they think of that compliment you gave them. Someone secretly admires you.
Someone appreciates the love and support you give them. You're not insignificant in any way.
Your existence makes a positive difference whether you see it or not
Uncommon advice: If you don't know what to pursue in life right now. Pursue yourself. Pursue becoming the healthiest, happiest, most healed, most present, most confident version of yourself. Then the right path will reveal itself.
A mistake that cost me 5 years: Thinking preparation was progress. Reading every book. Taking every course. Planning every detail. Meanwhile, someone dumber than me started badly and figured it out. Preparation feels productive but it's often just fear dressed up as strategy. You learn to swim by getting in
the water, not by studying water.
i dare you to be as delusional as possible for 30 days. compliment strangers. ask for things that feel out of your reach. take shot after shot after shot. you won’t hit them all, but you’ll hit a couple. but what you hit isn’t the point. it’s about rewiring what you see as possible. when you remove your self imposed limits, you realize they were never real to begin with. anything is possible my friend. but it’s up to you to pursue it.
all roads lead you back to yourself, to the standards you ignored, the boundaries you softened, the intuition you doubted. life keeps repeating lessons until you finally listen and become a better version of yourself.
Your potential is so much greater than you could've ever imagined. Your limitations are fake. Your beliefs are what shape your reality. Buy into beliefs that allow you to create a future for yourself. To reshape your life. Recreate your reality.Don't just survive. Don't just settle. Realise your own potential. If you can dream it you can reach it