wow, just learned that people who don’t have astigmatism see the world with no visual flaws, which leads them to be overly optimistic and incapable of empathy. they’re basically monsters. once again, stigs win, but in a way that burdens us with tremendous responsibility
Someone being attracted to you doesn’t mean you’re interesting or valuable. It also doesn’t even mean you’re attractive. Once you get over this you can basically go to the grocery store wearing anything.
This is beautiful. Beautiful.
We SHOULD all want the truth, men and women.
Here it is.
A Woman who is an 8, 7, 6, 5, and even a 4 can get a guy who is a 10 to have sex with her.
This has ramifications later because a guy who is marrying a fellow 5 knows she has been brought to ecstasy by a guy who is a 9 in a way he never will. He knows that she will always be thinking about that guy and regretting something that was never going to be (but she will tell herself otherwise).
That does not mean the woman cannot control herself in her marriage, but that this truth is always there.
This is why I have always advised men to marry down in the looks department. Fellas, do you really care? Still feels absolutely great, and she will be satisfied.