I can’t get over how much this tattoo means. In a time of struggle lately, it’s somewhat relieving looking down & reminding myself of how much I’ve overcome & how much more I have yet to go because ‘strength grows in the moments you think you can’t move on, but do anyways’💛
date sweet men. men who are calm. men who can articulate themselves. men who are soft spoken. men who are patient with you. men who respect both you and themselves . men who are kind to you. men that are gentle. men who have self control.
In a relationship, you work with the person who is willing to compromise and put in the effort. Not with the person who dismisses how you feel, and does nothing.
it’s wild when you realize that they actually showed you multiple times how much they did not value you but it took you a minute to actually accept and internalize it because you’re so used to not feeling valued. it was so normal for you to feel unconsidered by them.
Truly why it’s important to reframe our concept of singlehood. If you create a life you love as a single person, a partner has to actually be worthy of coming into your life and changing it. If you hate life as a single person, you’ll settle for anyone who’ll have you.
if you’re not ready to consider my feelings in almost everything you do, it wont work for me. because im very considerate, i never want the person i love to feel like i dont & i never want to love someone & not feel loved. consideration is up there with loyalty if you ask me