My biggest toxic trait is not knowing when to let go. I dont like losing people at all. I do so much to try and have them stay. && i only end up breaking my heart
Things that look like love:
Sex
Calling all the time
Obsessions/Attention
Going out all the time
Gifts and money
What love really is:
Respect
Forgiveness
Trust
Sacrifice
Commitment
Having each other's back
Common goals
Evolving together
Communication
Please travel w your partner. it’s so beneficial to get out of your city, normal routine, & explore new places w your person.. switching up the scenery, making memories, all while growing together is sometimes the reset you BOTH need to grow the relationship
We hired a 22 year old at work.
Yes, she's hotter than my wife.
But she's not my best friend. She doesn't make me laugh. She hasn't seen me at my worst, and decided she loves me anyway.
So, I'll pass. Thanks.
Being in a healthy relationship really taught me there's no such thing as 'that's just the way I am'. When you truly love someone you work on those toxic traits, you learn to communicate, you actively listen to each others thoughts & feelings – you adjust, grow & heal together.