just apologize to your partner when you know you messed up bruh… all that manipulative behavior and getting mad at them for being upset when they have a valid reason is just weird. people love to say they’re grown until it’s time to take accountability.
Adult friendships require grace. People are busy. People are healing. People are growing. People are taking time for self-care just like you. Don’t mistake less communication for less love. Check in, not out. 🩶
You’ll take rejection less personally when you remember “ppl don’t abandon you. They abandon the role they were never committed to fulfilling.” And sometimes we don’t want them back. We want the story we created around them to finally feel true.
It’s a red flag if your partner becomes very mean to you when you guys are fighting. It is quite important to have a partner that can still be kind to you during arguments and fight. You should still feel the love even in chaos and during fights. A kind partner is key!
Ladies, Whatever you do, make sure you end up with a kind partner. Choose a man who is emotionally intelligent & vocal. A man who pays attention to small details. A man who is patient. There will be days when love will not be enough but a kind person is a kind person regardles.
Every happily married woman I’ve ever met has told me their happiness is because they worry about themselves. You can’t be panini pressed over a man 24/7, it’s a recipe for insanity