I used to think communication was the key until i realized comprehension is. You can communicate all you want with someone but if they don't understand you, it's silent chaos
We don't talk nearly enough about "papercuts" in a relationship. Everytime there's raised voices, cruel words, lack of support, short temper, lack of affection, etc., a tiny wound is created. Not enough to make you leave, but enough to make part of you pull away & lose a
Walz, 60, has drawn criticism for appearing older than his age. Walz responded on X, saying that it’s because he “supervised the lunchroom for 20 years. You do not leave that job with a full head of hair. Trust me.” 😅🤣
a lot of people lack basic manners and decency and think it makes them cool and edgy.
learn table manners, don’t show up to things empty handed, write cards, talk to your neighbors, hold the door for people, etc.
you don’t even have to be THAT nice just be considerate.
pls don’t jump me but what’s the real reason yall won’t get married but be quick to have a baby when that’s an even bigger commitment than the marriage???
This!!
Every year kids claim I’m “their fav”, including kids who aren’t mine.
I don’t do ANYTHING special. I simply try to be LIKE a friend (cuz I def ain’t ya friends. That’s weird).
Show them that you care about them as HUMANS FIRST, the rest will fall into place!
I love children so much. And I love that children consider me a safe space. Too many adults do not care about how children feel about them and that’s why there’s no connection/relation. You cannot cry for community while not caring for/about children.
Asked this white girl at Walmart today to help me size my ring fingers & she just handed me the thingy silently. I did it myself.
She then proceeded to fully help the white women who arrived AFTER me.
But she said “ur welcome” with a smile after i thanked her when i left. 🤔
The main thing I’m getting out that Dr. Umar clip is that black people still have this belief that white people have to directly hate you or be rude to you just for them to be a racist. White people can smile in your face, be nice to you and even invite you over their house.
Mannn, have you read the New Testament?! Jesus threw enough shade to block out the sun!!
”“You unbelieving generation,” Jesus replied, “how long shall I stay with you? How long shall I put up with you? Bring the boy to me.”“
Mark 9:19 NIV
There are so many behaviors and habits that get passed down/through families genetically.
I implore you to take time to explore your family’s behaviors and habits, good AND bad.
It may just very well explain the unexplainable!
until you date a caring man, you’ll understand that men love to provide for their woman. they don’t wait to be asked, they genuinely find joy in doing it, they take initiative, they take pride in taking care of their woman
Learning about the “resting phase” on TikTok. It’s when your body is adjusting & resting from being in “fight or flight” mode for a long period of time and that explains why I’ve been so exhausted no matter how much sleep I get.