One thing I’m learning as a sex therapist in training is that your BDSM personality will expose your real relationship needs.
Being a brat, a sub, a rope bunny, prey, a switch, a masochist it’s not “just kinky.” It’s your attachment style with the lights dimmed.
Brats want someone who can match them.
Subs need consistent leadership, not control.
Rope bunnies crave safety and structure.
Prey needs clear pursuit.
Switches need flexibility.
Masochists want intensity and presence. 1/2
Nunca vou esquecer de um vídeo que vi no Facebook anos atrás onde uma mina testava shibari com uma femdom e simplesmente CAIA NO CHORO no meio do rolê, e a moça perguntando se tava tudo bem e a que tava chorando só sabia dizer que nunca se sentiu tão bem na vida, fiquei gag
Dolly actually has a song she recorded and has it locked in a “dream box” which is not to be opened until her 100th birthday in 2046.
The song is called ‘My Place In History.’
Idk, it’s kind of a comfort that we still have music to come from her.
telling your brain "i know you don't wanna do the thing and it'll be very uncomfortable for you at first but you can do it buddy. it'll be fine" is actually surprisingly effective. it sounds too simple but that fuckass organ WILL listen to you if you treat it with kindness lol
Gf got a boner without viagra and she it was the first time it's happened since she begun her transition, so of course we had some rough sweaty makeup sex where we were pretending to be a couple of boys "experimenting", she bullied the fuck out of me and kept calling me a faggot and saying I was gay cus I had the dick in my butt and that she was still straight cus any hole is a goal, she also recorded it and threatened to show everyone unless I let her fuck me regularly... larping during sex is so fun 😭❤️