your options for community as a trans person are to bite your tongue with 0 seconds on T he / it jaxon, deal with lilith the ket addicted puppygirl who expects friendcest from you, or hang with sasha the doll who judges you for not being a turbofem twink pre transition
@MeownyLaunderin i am glad that this is becoming something that we can talk about out loud, people who flip flop like this do a lot of damage to the perception of trans people by society and encourages gatekeeping in a way that hurts people far more than it helps
@onobyte it really feels like they take tax dollars and flush them directly down the toilet, like our government seems to have no interest in appearing professional or competent because they know they don't have to
@willowsqueak i wish so often that queer spaces were more common, my city is an absolute dead zone, unless i walk around with a sign that says "WANT WOMAN!" i have no idea how i am supposed to meet anyone
No quiero sonar transfoba pero si muchas chavalas trans, incluyendome hemos transmitido el miedo a llamarnos lesbiana en momentos inciiales de la transición por miedo a que no somos mujeres™ (que oye esto esta kk y hay que analizarlo) y despues transmasc diciendo ser lesbianas.
@darlysuck we don't, we just don't want nonbinary people talking over us about our feelings and struggles. NB is a very wide spectrum containing many people who do not transition; people who do not transition do not experience being trans the same way we do.
@Keroko44 we are seeing in real time how the "trans community" is happy to buckle under pressure and sacrifice the well being of their most marginalized members while gleefully wallowing in their own self-assured progressive flavored ignorance. "be proud! not my problem if you die for it"
@TeddyisVenn people always want the social benefits but they cant handle the social consequences, you can like literally anything without judgement if you just never talk about it. this really eludes some people.