until you date a generous man (i didn’t say rich), you’ll understand that men love to provide for their women. they don’t wait to be asked, they find joy in doing it, they take initiative, it is his pleasure to be generous to a woman he adores. generous in time, emotion, action.
"stay with them through ups & downs."
downs are NOT:
-cheating
-disrespect
-abuse: verbal, mental, physical, spiritual
-manipulation
-gaslighting
-control
downs are:
-financial hardships
-health issues
-tragic death/injury
-rough points in a relationship (arguing, lack of
intercourse, losing the "spark")
-trouble keeping/finding individuality in a relationship
stop normalizing putting yourself through trauma trying to prove to somebody that you love them
men are the real gold diggers. they expect you to give them your body, play maid, cook their meals, raise their kids, clean their mess, pamper their fragile egos, and take the brunt of emotional labor, all while holding down a job and splitting the bills !!
Ion like being under a relationship 24/7. Like get out with your friends. Ima get out with mines. Meet new people. Hang out with whoever. It don’t have to be a couples thing 24/7. Folks really take the boo everywhere. That’s cool if they invited too tho