Jada 🦋

| Evolving | ♏️ |

[𝕊𝕒𝕞𝕞𝕪 @FromN5_]

wine drunk doesn’t even announce itself. you just be relaxing then all of sudden you start feeling sexy as fvck 😭

[L E S E D I @_Hybreed_]

“Thank God it’s the weekend”

Me Saturday and Sunday :

[𝑔𝒾𝓇𝓁𝓈 𝒷𝑒𝒶𝓊𝓉𝓎🎀 @GirlsBeautyy519]

the older i get the more i desire to disappear for a good 6 months to a year to address and fix every issue holding me back

[Lowkeyhurt @uhtriad]

"if you sleep in the afternoon, you won't sleep at night"

me in the afternoon and at night:

[☔ @Whotfismick]

When you realize everything is so expensive and still God hasn’t let you you go hungry, homeless or empty

[k @ysljennii]

watching a man cook is probably #1 on the list for nonsexual things that turn me on/I’m attracted to.

[໊ @xoeeie]

i honestly think the most beautiful kind of love is when someone is sure about you, no mixed signals, no confusion, just consistency, effort, and a feeling that they truly want you in their life.

[femiiiiii. @femiiiszn]

adulting really humbles you. i finally understand why some people go quiet, stop posting, or just disappear from social media.

[jonzing. @ehisssss]

i texted her, "how was your day today?" and she sent me a 7 minute voice note telling me everything..

and that basically sums up the kind of person i want by my side. stop normalizing disinterest.

[coco @Cocobby02]

A man must be scared to disappoint you, scared to lose you, scared to made you sad, scared to break your heart. I think a healthy relationship requires a level of fear on the man’s end.

[N’wa Mucanyi 🫶🏾 @KhananiShingan1]

Yep 😭marriage is deeper than chemistry and cute dates. That's the person who'll hold you together through grief, sickness, childbirth and every hard season life throws at you.

[Resko★ @Bloke_Baz]

I am not interested in climbing any corporate ladders. I don't care about job titles. I don't need recognition or fame. I just want to have an income to fund my lifestyle, not be depressed, help other people, and be around good humans.

[𝐐𝒎𝒂𝒙 ✰ @itzQmax]

Women love resting. It’s one of their favorite things to do. Reading, laying under the sun, painting their nails, writing, journaling, taking baths, drinking a cup of tea in silence, sleeping, doing nothing. And there’s nothing wrong with that, they need it for a reason, it’s medicine! ♥️

[Sehrishhh @drbigbrowneyes]

the scarier side of communication is, "i messed up. i wronged you, i accept that. but im not willing to lose you so tell me what to do to fix it." it takes courage to admit that even to yourself, let alone another person. and if you genuinely fear losing someone, you will do it.

[‏ً @omgsidewalks]

Hyper independence. Can't be let down if you never ask for anything in the first place.

[her.🎀 @luv1bun]

A month after we got married, my mother-in-law came to stay with us for a few days.
I was anxious, expecting her to judge everything I did.

One evening, my husband walked into the kitchen and casually said,
“Isn’t the food ready yet? I’m hungry.”

I had just returned from work, completely drained, but I didn’t say anything and kept going.

My mother-in-law was there, listening to it all, but she didn’t react immediately.
After he left, she gently called me over and said,
“Does he think this is a hotel?”

I felt embarrassed and replied that maybe I wasn’t doing enough.
She looked at me and said something I’ll always remember:
“You’re not his servant—you’re his partner. Being tired shouldn’t fall on just one person.”

Then she stood up and called out to him,
“Come here, habibi… your wife isn’t here to serve you. If you’re hungry, either help her or make something yourself.”

He fell silent—clearly not expecting that from her.

After that day, things began to change. Sometimes he’d get to the kitchen before me,
and if I was running late, he’d say, “Sit down, I’ll handle dinner tonight.”

That’s when it really hit me:
Not every mother enables her son at her daughter-in-law’s expense...
some raise men who know how to be true partners.

[⋆ @lowkeyalbert]

2 hours of cooking just to eat in 10 minutes and now i've gotta wash all the dishes

[𝓛𝓪𝓾𝓻𝓪 ˚.🎀༘⋆ @Laura_arma_ni]

me taking a pic of literally everything cus i love memories sm

[🍂 @Lovandfear]

A big part of becoming an adult is unlearning a lot of the shit you were taught by people who didn’t know what they were doing either.