Learning how to leave people alone and go on with your life is a needed skill. Master it. If they need space and time, give it to them. Don't force anything. What flows, flows. What crashes, crashes. Trust the divine unfolding of the Universe. The best things happen unexpectedly.
It is a man's job to set the tone in a relationship. A woman feeds off of his energy. This is why showing up for her and being consistent is so important. She can't feel safe with you if you're not leading properly...
Y’all niggas so weird, you watch a girl try to love you, be attached to you, fwu hard & all that, but act like that ain’t what you want. The first time you see her letting go & somebody else trying to reciprocate the energy you didn’t have SHE a hoe this/that.