For all the manosphere talking points about assertiveness it seems they completely discourage active, high agency behavior the moment it becomes selfless and not selfish.
Actively checking if she's hurting, actively assessing whether the person is fully able to *give consent*, actively making sure people around her are also not hurting/pushing any boundaries
They're determinists when it comes to their own morality ("guys will be guys, who hasn't hooked up in a party drunk?") but simultaneously impose the highest standards of behavior on those they victimize.
Was catching up with a friend from high school during a party. Turns out she was having a relationship crisis and was horribly drunk
We hugged for a bit and she kissed my neck outta nowhere
Pulled away from the hug, gave a nice pat on the shoulder, gave a josh nicholson: "be seeing ya" and stormed the finger food section like it was the beaches of normandy.
She was super chill afterwards and invited me to a friendly hangout a week later where we and a couple of friends watched the conjuring and overall after that our bond I think grew a lil stronger
Say no when a no is warranted, anon
@Aella_Girl It's why generally I think a lot of sexual surveys involving women are skewed to the prudish side when that may not be the reality, considering there's bigger social ramifications if these actions became public, for example, in comparison to an equally sexual man
(Mostly unrelated to the original post, just the phrase "cuddle hook up" reminded me of this)
Small lil fantasy I have is being outside with someone romantically, they just received bad news and are using the hookup as a pressure valve, I catch it and ask if they really want to do this or if they're forcing themselves to do something they're not really in the mood for, get into a short argument ab it and suddenly it starts to rain
As everything is going wrong girl breaks down and hugs seeking comfort and it's just two ppl sheltering themselves beneath a roof mid sniffles cuddling and comforting each other
Sorry I've been on a romantic media bender
You could do cuddle hook ups. Don't even bother taking off clothes.
Except this is kinda silly. Your brain rewards cuddling because it's *supposed* to signal 'wow I have a close, amazing social bond with this person!' but if the reality is that You Don't Have That Bond... lol
A bit overwhelmed by all the support I got here. Know that I've read every single comment and I appreciate every single person who took time out of their day to comment
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seeing this makes me want to learn how to draw but the attempts i make are not only an insult to the craft but a direct affront to god
how the fuck do you draw the second eye