Being “nice” doesn’t turn women off. But seeking approval does.
When your actions revolve around pleasing her, you’re not leading—you’re following. That’s not masculine energy. Leadership isn’t about being cold or dismissive. True strength includes kindness, listening, and valuing her voice. But it starts with being grounded in yourself first. Otherwise, you lose your center—and she feels it.
Most men today don’t chase women out of love. They chase them from ego—seeking validation, attention, or sex to fill a void. But in doing so, we don’t love each other—we use each other. And that’s why so many relationships are built on pain instead of trust.
That’s why I believe in waiting for marriage. It’s not about tradition—it’s about clarity, integrity, and protecting what actually matters. It shields us from chasing empty highs, from broken homes, and from a culture that trades real love for cheap dopamine. It’s not fear of love—it’s the discipline to honor it.
Waiting reveals the truth. Do you love her soul, or just the way she makes you feel? Is it real love—or just lust?
The key to finding love is first finding self-love.
When you love yourself, you stop looking for others to complete you. You stop performing to be chosen. You become a man who leads with peace and purpose—who gives love freely, not to be validated, but because it’s who you are.
This is how we restore connection.
This is how we protect what’s sacred.
This is how we build a life worth living.
Love starts in you.
And from there—it can grow into everything.
Men—heal yourselves first.
Stop choosing brokenness. Stop creating more pain.
Choose women who are healing too.
That’s how we break the cycle—one family at a time.
@RocketBullets As FNS said, this is their transitioning phase. Same happened with Nongshim last year. They mostly lost all of the matches they played but won a Masters this year. Let's just wait for 2027. Not a fan of VARREL btw but just wanted to put out my opinion #GEFIGHTING 🤟
@alpharivelino If you train your kicks for a boxing match, you not gonna find what you’re looking for.
If you train to be a hoe, you are not going to be training to be a good loving man. You become what you train to become.
@Anon55289557711@growthhub_ well, at some point, it will get so low, the only way forward is better, and better and better from there.
Sometimes the best lessons come from the deepest abyss
Look. My last response. I’m not typing with serious intent here.
I obviously mean 400 miles spread about in some timeframe for most people.
A bigger number could be up to a years worth…
My point is this:
Let’s say for most people you drive some theoretical miles driven a day for work, errands, and such. And at a speed that technically saves you a couple minutes a day.
Every day you could save a minute, two or maybe even 10 minutes.
Which is reset every day.
you can’t accumulate time saved and spend it like savings account.
By the time you wake up, you don’t realize or save any time in the future.
Nor do most people fully optimize all their time in such a manner where it would make a difference. IE: extra time goes to doom scrolling.
Do u need me to spell out my point further?
@ComRicheyweb@akafaceUS I was under the impression you meant 400 miles over a year or so is 100 minutes saved. In such case, your math is mathematically sound, but realistically it’s not.
@ComRicheyweb@akafaceUS Okay but would you realize that time saved?
You don’t actually gain an hour of time.
You gain minutes of time that gets reset every day
Kids are on a journey of self discovery. A thought does not indicate true understanding of themselves.
They are kids. Easily malleable and easily persuaded to believe something they don’t actually believe in.
If you regularly berate them and tell them they are dumb, they will believe it and tell themselves they are dumb. Their mindset eroded by a constant voice dumbing them down.
Parents and adults should be a voice of reason guiding them in their path to self discovery. They explore the world, find something interesting and seek to understand it.
Even some adults don’t even know themselves and are so easily swayed by things around them- still walking through life through an external compass.
Teach kids to be secure, and not in an anxious state. Teach them to have an inner compass.
Teach them self love, to accept themselves and their body the way they were born.
Teach them the importance of honoring themselves but also the world around them. There is a difference between unhealthy obsession and healthy desire.
How can you find balance in believing you can be anything you want to be, when you so urgently need it? At what cost is it worth?
Teach them to have faith in themselves, their goals and desires, but also to have faith that another door could open. Don’t become too attached to a particular goal or outcome. Honor your will alongside life’s unpredictability.
Don’t let your desires burn so hot you burn own mind and body.
@sophieraiin Something must be terribly wrong with America culture or education system.
We got to go back and start from the bottom up.
What’s in our education? What’s lacking? What’s needed?