@VladTheInflator@jamalmoore65 They question that one should ask themselves is why did Black men have to act in a Superman capacity when Black men have seen themselves disenfranchised from every benefit of war? Civil War? Got sharecropping and Jim Crow. WWI, no gi bills and a depression. Would you fight it?
@VladTheInflator@jamalmoore65 Let’s talk about why would a man want to fight and die in a war that wasn’t effect his homeland, for a home that doesn’t even view him as a full citizen? This is before civil rights, would you fight for a country you can’t even vote in and are lynched?
@VladTheInflator@jamalmoore65 If you have to admit that black men were framed as rapist in American, what makes you think this wasn’t the case in Europe. Also consider, these numbers/bias are not reported from Vietnam, on some 20 years later.
@VladTheInflator@jamalmoore65 To ignore the clear racial climate that white women could use during that time to “maintain” their innocence even though they likely willingly had sex with those men is shows the disingenuous nature of this conversation.
It’s called "reactive abuse." Pushing a man into a corner, attacking his insecurities, constantly manufacturing chaos, and the split second he loses his cool and reacts, you pull out the victim card and completely absolve yourself of the provocation. We hold men accountable for their reactions, but completely ignore the women who engineered the breakdown.
The internet constantly tells women that men are terrible listeners because the second a woman starts venting about her day, the man immediately interrupts to offer a logical solution. We are taught to view this as him being dismissive, emotionally unintelligent, or invalidating our feelings.
The strict, unpopular truth is that to a man, fixing the problem is his absolute highest, most desperate form of empathy.
Women vent to connect; we want our partner to just sit in the dark with us and validate the emotion. But men are hardwired to view the woman they love being in distress as an active threat. When he immediately offers a spreadsheet, a strategy, or a solution to your problem, he isn't trying to silence you. His brain has recognized that something in the world is hurting his partner, and his immediate, visceral instinct is to assassinate the thing causing you pain.
We constantly shame men for "not just listening," completely ignoring the fact that his attempt to fix your life is his most profound declaration of love.
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Dr. Johnson, you always say they don’t agree, this interview is directly supporting that
@Baby_Beedee I’m not a Christian, but no dress that could be worn to a lounge, bar or club, AND draw male attention, should be wore to church.
All three dresses are too form fitting.