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This only makes sense if you're hanging out with a certain class and financial standing in SF. My network has widened to artists, nonprofits, and service workers. It is just different.
Went out drinking in New York with a friend from San Francisco last month. The bar was crowded and drinks were flowing when he said: βThe people here are so nice and non-transactional, which is very different from SF.β
The difference, he thinks, is that New York is a multi-industry town while San Francisco is dominated by one industry: tech.
That matters because people are more likely to stay on their guard in one-industry towns. In San Francisco, if you meet somebody, you probably know the company they work for or somebody they work with, and at the very least, thereβs a decent chance youβll cross paths in the future.
New York is different. Itβs home to a bunch of different industries, so there are a bunch of different status hierarchies: fashion, finance, theater, advertising, media, real estate, and so many more. The status ladders are parallel, not stacked, which relaxes people.
His theory: The more distance there is in the average social connection, the less transactional people are and the more comfortable they are letting loose.
@vidhster Not sure how that's different from being followed to a single family house? Or even people who live in buildings with only a few units? Plus a lot of this information is available through public records. We reveal so much personal info elsewhere unintentionally
So sad that the last time I went to a large professional conference for my day job, twitter was the place to connect and get different povs. Now it feels...so empty?
For the record, there are many great onigiri places in SF. Like Onigilly, Kissako Tea, Super Mira. An old neighborhood favorite Bon, Nene
https://t.co/gvfZEUkkyi
According to a thread on X, some 7-Eleven stores are selling Japanese onigiri β with a photo of Mayor London Breed on the wrapper. https://t.co/wy3xOQXtXi
Episode 27: Lean In
In 2013, Sheryl Sandberg delivered a simple message to women: you are faced with tremendous structural hurdles in the workplace, but if you overcome them, you can get rich by illegally selling user data and so forth.
https://t.co/Rb3mWHD1cd
@lilastories I was told that people who use 24 hour time might say this! But still it doesn't make sense why things would blow up at noon rather than midnight. This idiom!