Nobody is dancing in the clubs again. Days of 11.45, Rehab, Ks Place, Vault, Movida, 57
The thrill of clubbing was buying cheap drinks and dancing with a stranger.
Why am I going to buy expensive drinks, stand for hours, and just hail people while listening to stale music
Don't forget those who were kind to you. Harming those who’ve helped you or planning the downfall of those who strengthened you are clear signs of ingratitude. It will come back to haunt you. Honour those who helped you up when you were down.
When they tell you politicians don’t care about you while they wine & dine with those same politicians just know that they are taking you for a clown. The only person that holds that intellectual right should be an individual like Sowore, not all these political hacks. ☺️
I clocked something..
Rent is always paid for, nobody notices that the DSTV subscription hasn’t gone off since, nobody notices that the kids haven’t stayed home since they started schooling, nobody notices how the cooking gas is always filled when it finishes, notice how there’s always light in the house even with the crazy units, there’s always fuel in gen when there’s no light.
Nobody appreciates the Man SPECIALLY for all these.. it’s seen as “that’s his job”.. he gets no special props for it.
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But the moment you ask why there’s no food in the kitchen and/or why the kitchen is dirty..
It becomes “You think it’s easy to cook and clean, appreciate and support her”
Women want appreciation, support and incentives for their roles, while a Man wanting support for his own role is “not Man enough”.
+ When the Man supports her role, “He’s doing it for his family”
When the Woman supports his role, “She’s doing it for HER MAN”(and not for the family)
These are the issues…
Men need to clock so many things and start speaking up more to regulate these narratives… we can’t continue keeping quiet.. na beg I dey beg una.
The more successful you are, the more likely people will plot and plan against you. Do your best to protect yourself against them but remember, there’s no power higher than the Almighty. If you have His protection, no one can harm you. Trust only Him.