sometimes even an apology can’t fix what happened because the real issue isn’t the mistake, it’s the part of your character that allowed you to do it in the first place. and you can’t apologize for character.
My aunt interrupted me to ask why I "talk like that" if I'm "so" educated. I said "Like what?" & she said "Ignorant"
So I told her "I prioritize intelligibility over ostentation. My intelligence requires no external validation."
She said "What?" I said "That's why."
Now she mad
according to physiology people who go silent when somethings upsets them or hurts them are often experiencing a coping mechanism called emotional withdrawal. 1/4
My bsf left her husband of 2 years because when she went grocery shopping, she'd buy the cookies he likes and the cookies she likes but the one time he did the shopping, he only bought the cookies he likes. It be the smallest thing that opens your eyes to ppl not really liking U
Idc how much you and a person rekindle things, you gone always think back to how they moved on you, knowing you would’ve never did it to them. the whole vibe be thrown off. It’s hard to love a person the same twice. especially if they ain’t appreciate it the 1st time.
Breakups hurt. You know what REALLY fucking hurts? Trying to “make it work” with someone who has PROVEN to you TIME AND TIME AGAIN that they do not give a fuck about your feelings. THAT hurts
Losing a nigga who ain’t do shit but cause problems and cheat ain’t a loss! Niggas be in the way! Holding up the spot! Toss him to the bitches he chasing and the homies he tryna impress and focus on yourself till a REAL nigga find you😘