"if you're working through trauma, why are you trying to date?" you will learn the true depths of your trauma from interacting with others. that's when you can see what exactly has to be worked on. in isolation, no one is around to trigger you. so how will you truly know?
the fear of asking for what you want in your relationship can also stem from a fear of vulnerability. you donโt want them to know how much emotional power they have over you. if thatโs how you feel toward them โ why are you with them? what is a relationship without vulnerability?
the feeling na walang dating na new year na tomorrow for me because narealize ko lang na how much I changed as a person this year
pinagod ako ng taon na toh to the point na di ako sure kung may puso pa ba ako