@yabaleftonline Congratulations after 22 years! What a wait! Even Leicester City and some other small clubs won the league within these 22 years of always ending second lol 😂
PURPOSEFULNESS!
Stop living for the applause. Start living to solve problems. When you shift your focus from being noticed to being useful, you win by default. Winning is not the goal; solving is. And once the problem is solved, you’ll look back and realise you’ve already won.
Listening shouldn’t be a difficult task, yet it is the very thing we often neglect. In the heat of an argument or the busyness of life, it’s easy to dismiss a partner's vulnerability as "complaining" or "weakness."
Whenever a person chooses to be vulnerable, to peel back the layers and open up about their fears, concerns, and hurts, they are handing you the map to their most sensitive areas. In that moment, they are at their most fragile.
We mustn't weaponise that map.
#Lifecoach
@Prettyjola_@Thatsmarttouch@instablog9ja I think your perspective on value is wrong. Sex is something you give to secure something material. It is an act of intimacy that should strengthen an already existing connection. And if the connection grows weak after the sex. There was no connection in the first place.
@Prettyjola_@PotatoeSarge@instablog9ja You don't give sex as a woman. What about days that he didn't want sex but he had to give it anyway? It is a two-way street! You sound like he should have left those things for her because of the sex both of them agreed to have. Hence, sex is an exchange for something material
@Prettyjola_@instablog9ja She didn't give him sex. Both of them had sex, they did it together the guy also gave her sex that he can't take back. A woman cannot have sex all by herself. Sex is physical but spiritual,&emotional which both of them shared!