I don't believe in the ontological relevance of "gender self-determination".
I don't believe that sex can be so often mistakably inferred that revealing one's pronouns is necessary.
I don't believe one's unmet desire to be called a certain way should lead to tyranny.
"I dont believe in pronouns"
"erm, everyone has pronouns 😏"
"I dont believe in drinking"
"erm everyone drinks water 😏"
failing to understand obvious context isnt a dunk, it actually makes you look stupid
This week, my wife and I made the very difficult decision to terminate the pregnancy due to Trisomy 21.
The choice was not made lightly. We really appreciate all of the personal stories that you guys shared with us, especially the unconditional support we received from fans with no matter what we decided.
I know some of you may be very disappointed to hear this news. We are devastated. This has been extremely traumatic for both of us, especially Ashley.
She underwent the procedure earlier this week and is on the mend. Thankfully, everything went smoothly, but emotionally we are drained.
Trisomy 21, also known as Down Syndrome, is caused by an extra chromosome. It is caused by an error in cell division, like a glitch. The odds of a baby having it is 1 in 1000.
When I first confronted this news, I was shocked but optimistic. If they’re a little slow intellectually, then we’ll make it work. I signed on to be a parent, come what may…but I just didn’t fully understand what Down Syndrome entailed.
Once we made it public, it became clear that MOST people don’t know what Down Syndrome entails (and no, it’s not the same as Autism):
50% of babies with DS have heart defects. 75% will have hearing challenges. Over 50% will have vision problems. Impaired immune function, developmental disabilities, learning disabilities, delayed physical development, poor muscle tone, structural issues with face, decreased lifespan, etc…Sadly, the list is long, feel free to look it up…Down Syndome isn’t a “blessing”, it is objectively shitty from a health perspective.
I didn’t realize just how rough it is for the child, let alone the family…more often than not, they would be fully dependent on others for the rest of their life.
The miscarriage risk is also close to 50%, which made matters worse…they may never see the light of day and it puts Ashley further at risk.
We spoke with doctors, friends, family and genetic counselors and learned that up to 90% of women terminate their pregnancy after learning the baby has Trisomy 21.
This was WAY higher than I expected, I thought it would be lower given that I hear so many say they kept or would keep the baby. I believe that’s because most terminations happen privately, it feels shameful. A lot of judgment being cast.
You never think you’d be in this type of situation until it happens to you and then things change.
To all of my fans who have weighed in on this topic who have Autism, Down Syndrome or any other conditions…we appreciate you. You matter a lot and we’re glad you’re here. I commend you and your families for having the strength and courage to push forward.
As for us, we made a difficult decision that we believe in the long-run will be beneficial for our family. Thankfully, we had a choice.
It will take a little time to move on, but we are excited to try again in the future and hopefully have a better outcome.
Love you guys & thank you for understanding. ❤️
@found_it_funny Why are people so obsessed about melanin content. People saying they are black or white is completely meaningless without rooted geographical cultures and local communities with the diversity of beautiful cultures of Europe and other continents
@Pirat_Nation All of this "let's give the keys to the Americans since they made somme successful games in the 2010s" was the worst decision Sony's ever made. Yeah, The Last Of Us and God Of War were critically acclaimed, but then what? It was a bubble, and it's popping.
@rickbrewPDN@Pirat_Nation Paintdotnet used to be basically Photoshop, but as intuitive as Paint. Now Photoshop simplified, and Paint improved. Paintnotnet has little left for itself and it's about to be left behind forever. Yet, it still has potential. Thus I wished there's more drive to innovate. 2/2
@rickbrewPDN@Pirat_Nation Meh, it's semantics. I didn't write: "it's abandoned". For sure what I meant is: "it stagnated".
For 8 (maybe 10) 10 years, what I see in the changelog is exclusively under-the-hood tweaks and bugfixes. There's nothing any user would spontaneously notice upon updating. 1/2
@Pirat_Nation Or it should rely on 30 passionate people who love what they are doing rather than hire 100 HRs and consultants who hate videogames.
Thinking outside the box, I know.
@rickbrewPDN@Pirat_Nation Man, with all due respect I can't think of a feature that got me excited in the past 8 years.
My suggestions:
- range hue shift (with color wheel selector)
- magic eraser and background remover (to compete with Paint)
- smarter magic wand & pressing 'del' somewhat autofeathers