if abortion is ILLEGAL, men abandoning their pregnant partners should be ILLEGAL too. if women can’t opt out of PREGNANCY, then men shouldn’t be able to opt out of FATHERHOOD either!
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I hear this question a lot: “Should a man pursue a wife?”
A woman is meant to support you and help you achieve your goals.
In the Garden of Eden, God created the man first and gave him duty and responsibility before a woman was created.
Today, too many men live only for their own selfish needs.
That’s the problem today.
Marriage shouldn’t be about finding a woman, it should be about serving a purpose bigger than yourself.
If all you care about is “getting laid”
you’re no different than a woman who only wants a “provider”
Selfishness is selfishness,
no matter the gender.
True purpose is serving others, not for recognition or reward, but to make the lives of those around you better.
When you live this way, you naturally attract people who want to help, support, and build with you.
“Marriage isn’t about sex”
- Said by people bad at sex
Let’s get this straight:
It is not that sex is the only focus in a marriage.
However, when sex is missing
it becomes the make-or-break factor that keeps the marriage alive.
What you did to make them attracted to you in the beginning:
How you look
How you acted
And the effort you took,
Must stay consistent.
Most people think once they “have” you,
effort can stop.
It starts small:
His favorite foods disappear.
His socks stop getting folded.
His space shrinks.
Sex becomes optional.
This tells your spouse:
“I know this matters to you, I just don’t care anymore.”
That’s disrespect.
And it spreads like mold on a wall.
A little mold can be wiped away.
Let it grow, and you have to condemn the whole house.
That’s how marriages dies, not from one big betrayal but from removing the small acts of love over time.
Keeping your body how they met you, saying yes to your man, wear that lingerie you wore while dating…
Those small acts are the glue that holds that relationship together.
When a man has a beautiful woman
suddenly every other woman remembers he exists.
Don’t get confused, fellas it’s not because you leveled up.
It’s because women compare themselves to other women first.
A lot of them see your girl and think:
“If I can take what she has, then she’s not really all that.”
It’s validation, not attraction.
Competition, not desire.
So the message to men:
Stop hunting for “better.” You already won.
Don’t throw away the woman who chose you just to entertain women who only want to beat her.
I don’t believe women “can’t mature” by 18 or 19.
If they’re allowed to drink, party, and sleep with boys at 16, but somehow “not ready” for marriage… it’s a cope.
I knew exactly what I wanted at 17. I met my husband at 20.
That wasn’t because I was magically more mature
It was because I had good parenting.
My parents modeled structure and respect for the head of the household, so marriage made sense to me.
The real maturity issue today comes from kids raised in single-parent chaos and dysfunctional relationships.
All they see are adults chasing selfish desires instead of learning sacrifice, loyalty, and commitment.
You can’t grow into what you’ve never seen.
Women love blaming their babies for why they got fat and unattractive.
Pregnancy didn’t ruin your body
your bad habits did.
When moms complain about hormones, darker skin, stretch marks, or a “slow metabolism,” (which doesn’t exist)
They forget, a baby doesn’t force you to gain FAT!
Fat comes from how much you ate and how little you moved, before and after pregnancy.
Most women think they can still live like they did in their 20s:
Drinking every weekend Eating all their calories late No gym Skipping meals Living on sugary foods
Then they hit their 30s, blow up, and blame “pregnancy,”
when it was their laziness all along.
If you had bad habits before, pregnancy just exposed them.
Because the truth is, even without kids, you’d still be dealing with fat gain.
The problem was never the child.
It was your lack of consistency and discipline.
Citing her Christian faith, Erika Kirk said she forgives the assassin who murdered her husband.
Some leftists online have threatened Erika after it was announced she would be leading TPUSA. Her message contrasts strongly to the leftist call for blood.