A lot of you never held any leadership role prior to marriage. Not your offices, not in associations you belong to, not even headboy of your primary school, so marriage is the one place you finally get to be the local champion leader you’ve been having wet dreams about.
Pathetic
in our efforts to avoid stereotypes we will end up with the same one-dimensional black characters over and over again. we need to be pushing to be portrayed as human! multidimensional, flawed, complex humans!