If you’re no longer talking to her and you still think about her a lot even though it’s been weeks or months since you last spoke, remember she’s not spending a second thinking about you.
How do I know this? Because women don’t have discipline. If she was thinking about you like that, she would’ve texted you weeks ago. She would’ve been in your DMs by now. You can still think about her a lot and control yourself not to text her, but she cannot do the same. Her silence DEFINITELY means you are not on her mind at all and she’s living her life as if you didn’t exist. Not a second of her time wasted on you.
With this in mind, realize how bad it is that you’re wasting your time letting someone affect your life while you are not affecting theirs in the slightest.
Feeling sorry for yourself won’t make her notice you, but forgetting about her and moving on might.
was dating a guy who was incredibly stingy with his money but incredibly generous with mine. He insisted on a strict 50/50 split on rent, groceries, and utilities. However, he ate 80% of the food, turned the thermostat up to maximum all winter while I froze, and used my expensive specialty shampoos and skincare products without asking because "we live together, what's mine is yours." When the bills came, he’d Venmo request me for half a coffee he bought me.
I decided to match his energy exactly. I bought a small, clear lockbox for the refrigerator and put all my high-end groceries inside. I put a digital luggage scale in the bathroom and weighed my luxury shampoo bottles after every shower.
At the end of the month, instead of just paying the utilities, I sent him a highly detailed Excel spreadsheet. I deducted the exact cost of the ounces of skincare fluid he consumed, added a surcharge for the extra data he used streaming games on my login, and invoiced him for the exact percentage of the heating bill his temperature preferences cost us....
Men need to develop the ability to spot women who only want to use you for their own selfish gain & you need to keep telling them they're losers often.
Just seen this clip of Tuchel with England, he might just win the 2026 World Cup.
Knockout football tournament is his thing, you can see how he is motivating them.
It's why he won trophies at Chelsea.
One of my friends went on a Hinge date in 2019.
Solid date. Thought it went well.
The next morning he got the classic HR text:
“You’re a great guy, but…”
Deleted the message and never thought about her again.
Fast forward 7 years to last night…
Goes on a first date last night with a girl from Hinge. Halfway through he realizes…
It’s the EXACT SAME GIRL. She doesn’t remember him at all, but he figured it out.
They laughed about it. He tried to bring her home (she’s 32 now and he’s 31), but she denied him.
This morning? She sent him basically the exact same HR text.
Some things never change… welcome to dating in NYC, the smallest city sometimes.
Israel.
Your enemies are our enemies. The Turkish and Iranian threats are fake. 50 million Kurds stand in their way. We are real. Finish the job in Lebanon.
Come to Kurdistan.