Jordan Holmes LMFT

Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist. LMFT Supervisor.

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Jordan Holmes, Marriage & Family Therapist, Tulsa, OK - Psychology Today https://t.co/oCEhAVMEwS

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Hello I am brand new to Twitter, what are you guys up to

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“Be bold and mighty forces will come to your aid.”

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With gratitude, I celebrate 45 years of sobriety.

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Just realized Relevant Magazine published another one of my articles, two years later! The things you learn by googling yourself . . . Hope you enjoy this one!

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Marriages don’t fail because of one BIG mistake. Marriages fail because of 1000 SMALL mistakes.

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A therapist should make you feel that whatever he has to share with you is far less important that what you have to share with him.

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EMDR https://t.co/HwDP081vP2 via @jordanmholmes

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Holding Ruby in line at the Houston airport with a stroller, car seat, 2 suitcases, backpack, diaper bag.

The girl behind me says, “You are dadding so hard right now.”

Yes. Yes I am.

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Preach, Beth Moore. Preach. Thread . . .

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I want to stoke the fire I’m in the middle of right now about as much as I want to amputate my toes without anesthesia. I’d much prefer to change the subject & move on & ignore the fury. I also want my family to have relief. But after intense prayer, I need to say a few things.->

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The milestones in your life matter. What you BELIEVE about the milestones in your life matters more.

[Jordan Holmes LMFT @jordanmholmes]

Become an expert on your partner. An expert on their thoughts, feelings, beliefs, hopes, joys, wounds and dreams. You don’t need to be an expert on anything else in your life, until you’re an expert on the most meaningful person in your life.

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I forced a bot to watch over 1,000 hours of Hallmark Christmas movies and then asked it to write a Hallmark Christmas movie of its own. Here is the first page.

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Many wounds of the soul are wounds of deprivation.

One path to healing is found in giving to others that very thing you feel deprived of.

If you don’t have a loving father, be a loving father. If you feel alone, be present for someone. Wounds are a hint of how we ought to give.

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This is fantastic https://t.co/ewsFsCvDDO

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@Coltenbarnaby Also, to be clear, I mean “intellectualization” in the classical Freudian sense as a defense mechanism to avoid confronting your own problems and emotions. No beef here with intellectuals ;) just with Freudian over intellectualizers!

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Intellectualization is more often a hinderance to growth & understanding than is ignorance. The ignorant may at least want to learn. The intellectualizer refuses to be taught and is therefore very difficult to help.

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@Coltenbarnaby Don’t give up so easily my Canadian brother! I think we would agree that in the context of emotional/psychological development, one who overly intellectualizes as a defense mechanism is in at least as much trouble as one who is ignorant of his own emotional underdevelopment.

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THOUGHTS ON BECOMING A DAD https://t.co/Y8WiEdOvWV

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I’m a little obsessed with this girl right now #rubyleeholmes https://t.co/9w2GqCHcqf