Your man has NO reason to be talking to: his ex, a girl who likes him, a girl who used to like him, or a girl he once had feelings for. That's not being insecure, that's called boundaries
I want a man that’s going to create an environment so safe for me that I can just love him unconditionally with all the respect and admiration he deserves. That’s it. That’s all.
maturing is realizing none of us are easy to be with. it's about who's willing to stay committed to understanding you and actually wants to grow with you
y'all are terrified of initiating conversation after conflict. I'm not your mother. i'm not whatever ex that used to blow up on you. i'm an adult that wants to hear you, be heard, and heal what's happened between us. silence is not a resolution.