me at 21 compared to 23โฆcompletely different people. me at 23 compared to now at 26, not the same either. two different women with different wants and needs. though the core of who I am and my heart is constant, I canโt wait to experience the versions of myself I evolve into
Be extra loving to yourself.
Everything changes when you begin to love yourself. You no longer send out energy of desperation or need to be filled from the outside. You become a powerful source within yourself that aligns the frequency that matches your inner state. The more you love who you are, the less you seek validation and approval. Loving yourself and respecting your time/energy shifts how the universe responds to you. You are sending the signal that you deserve so much more from life.
Everything starts with you.
People will treat you how you let them. People also feel the energy you put out and how you carry yourself from the inside out. The experiences you attract has a lot to do with how you feel about yourself. Your standards sets the tone for how others treat you. Don't belittle yourself by accepting behaviors that doesn't resonate with your life goals. You know what you want. Believe that you will get that. Most people have a fear that something great won't enter their life, so they settle and accept mediocrity. They think just because they "wasted time" or spent years in relationships that there isn't a hope for greatness.
Know that change starts with you.
Send the energy signal that you deserve the best in your life by taking the right action and disconnecting from negativity or someone who doesn't value their word. Action is the greatest respect. Let people show you who they are, not just tell you sweet words. Some people aren't ready to grow or discover themselves on a deeper level. Don't waste your time and energy on surface connections that aren't stimulating you to further understand yourself and life.
Dive into yourself and see what kind of person you attract. Everyone in your life is a reflection of where you are in your soulโs evolution. They are there to show you your current state, expose you to your potential, or assist you in discovering more of yourself. Don't get upset, get better and start elevating. Thank them for showing you that you deserve better. Thank them for helping you realize your truth. There's no loss, just lessons that help you realize your worth. Never settle or get caught up in regret. A new life can begin for you now. Love yourself!
Affirm: It all starts within me! โจ๐โจ