crypto girlie turned day trader trying to change her life for the better. i enjoy sourcing good information and data. some sports betting analytics too :)
I had a trading mentor once. Not some guru with a course. A legit maniac who blew $400,000 of his own money before he figured it out
Now he makes $80,000 a month and hasn't lost a funded account in 19 months
I asked him what changed. He looked at me like I was stupid and said:
"I stopped trying to be right and started trying to be rich. Those are two completely different goals and most traders never figure out the difference"
He explained:
"When I was losing $400,000, I had the best strategy in the room. My analysis was beautiful. My charts looked like a professor drew them. I could explain why price should go to a certain level better than anyone. And I was dead broke. Because I was trading to prove I was smart, not to make money"
"What does that mean practically?"
"It means I would enter a trade, price would go against me, and instead of taking the loss I'd add to the position because my analysis said I was RIGHT. The market was wrong. It would come back. I'd move my stop. Add more. Move it again. Add more. By the time I finally accepted I was wrong, a $500 loss had become a $15,000 loss. Because being right was more important to me than being profitable"
"So what changed?"
"I made one rule. The only rule that matters. When price hits my stop loss, I'm out. No exceptions. No analysis. No 'but the market should...' Nothing. Stop hit. Position closed. Move on to the next setup. That one rule saved my career"
"That's it? Just honoring stop losses?"
"That's it. But you don't understand how hard it is. Your ego is screaming at you. Your analysis looks perfect. Every fiber of your being says 'just hold a little longer, it'll come back.' And sometimes it does come back. Which makes it even more dangerous. Because the one time it doesn't come back is the time you lose your entire account"
"He pulled up his journal and showed me two periods:
Period 1 (the $400k loss era): Average win: $2,000. Average loss: $8,000. Win rate: 55%. He was RIGHT more often than wrong and still hemorrhaging money because his losses were 4x his wins. He was right about direction 55% of the time but too stubborn to take small losses when he was wrong
Period 2 (the $80k/month era): Average win: $3,500. Average loss: $800. Win rate: 42%. He was WRONG more often than right and making $80,000/month because his wins were 4x his losses. Same strategy. Same chart. Same person. The only thing that changed was that he started taking his stop losses instead of fighting them"
"The math is so simple it's insulting. If your average win is bigger than your average loss, you make money. You don't need to be right. You need to let your winners run and cut your losers fast. That's the entire profession in one sentence"
"Why did it take you $400,000 to learn that?"
"Because every trading course teaches you how to ENTER trades. Nobody teaches you how to LOSE trades. Losing is a skill. Accepting that you're wrong quickly and moving on with a small loss preserved is the most profitable skill in trading. It's also the one nobody practices because it doesn't feel good and you can't make a sexy YouTube video about it"
"Any other advice?"
"Yes. Lose on purpose."
"What?"
"When you start on a demo account, I want you to deliberately take losing trades. Enter a trade and immediately hit your stop loss. Watch the $500 disappear. Feel it. Then look at your account and notice that you're still alive. The account is still there. You can still trade tomorrow. Do this 50 times. After 50 intentional losses, you'll never be scared of a loss again. And a trader who isn't scared of losing is the most dangerous person in the market"
You are broke because you never lost
That mentor taught me more in one conversation than 2 years of YouTube ever did
The skill isn't finding entries. It's surviving losses. Master that and the entries take care of themselves
I teach this loss-management system inside my Discord. Live trading where you watch losses get taken cleanly and accounts grow anyway. Because that's what real trading looks like
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Something to look at the rest of the week
The opening week range is the high and low set from Monday and Tuesday
On @edgeful you see we break both sides only 20% of the weeks in the past year
So with us breaking the high today, we likely don't also go back down to the lows
That doesnt mean we cant have a bearish day tomorrow, we just probably shouldnt engage with 6900 again this week
Something to keep a look at on Thur and Fri, start a trial below for access
got a DM from a guy who said he made $1.2M trading last year
looked at his profile. 847 followers. no course. no discord. posts maybe twice a week.
thought it was cap
asked him to prove it
he sent broker statements. verified. real.
so I asked him one question: "what's your strategy?"
his answer changed how I think about trading forever.
"I trade one pattern. literally one. for 9 years."
"just one?"
"just one. bullish engulfing at daily support. that's it."
"you made $1.2M from bullish engulfings?"
"I made $1.2M from being the most patient motherfucker on planet earth."
he explained:
when he started, he was like everyone else. 47 indicators. 12 strategies. telegram signals. news trading. scalping. swing. everything.
blew $340k in 4 years.
his wife told him he was done. trading was over. get a real job.
"that's when I got serious."
he spent 6 months backtesting ONE setup. bullish engulfing at daily support. over 3 years of data. (i don't even know how the fuck support/resistance work lmao)
found it hit 61% of the time with average 2.8R when traded correctly.
"that was enough. I didn't need anything else."
now he wakes up. checks daily charts for 15 minutes. if the setup is there, he takes it. if not, he plays golf.
"some weeks I take zero trades."
"doesn't that drive you crazy?"
"it drove me crazy for the first 6 months. now I don't even think about it. no setup = no trade. the market owes me nothing."
I asked about his typical month:
- trades: 8-12
- winners: 5-7
- losers: 3-5
- average month: $70-120k
"you make six figures taking 10 trades a month?"
"bro most months I make more than I made the entire year when I was taking 10 trades a day."
this broke something in my brain.
we've been told MORE effort = MORE results
but trading is inverted
LESS effort = MORE results
because effort in trading usually means:
- more trades (more mistakes)
- more screen time (more emotional decisions)
- more analysis (more paralysis)
- more indicators (more confusion)
he told me his screen time went from 8 hours per day to 45 minutes per week.
his income went from -$80k/year to +$1.2M/year.
inverse correlation
I asked for his advice to new traders:
"pick one setup. test it. prove it works. then do ONLY that setup for 3 years. you'll be rich and everyone will think you're a genius. you're not. you're just patient."
before I ended the call:
"one more thing. everyone who tells you trading is hard is right. but not because the market is hard. because DOING NOTHING is hard. that's the actual skill. doing nothing while everyone else is busy losing money."
he hung up.
probably went to go do nothing.
studied 2 traders for 12 months
both started same day
both same starting capital ($10k)
both same market
both same general strategy
TRADER A after 12 months: $156,000 total withdrawn
TRADER B after 12 months: -$8,400 net loss
here's the difference that cost one of them $164,400:
it wasn't talent
it wasn't intelligence
it wasn't strategy
it wasn't luck
it was what they did AFTER losses
TRADER A's post-loss routine:
1. Close laptop immediately after daily loss limit hit
2. Voice record what happened (capture raw emotion)
3. 2-hour minimum break (mandatory)
4. Review recording next day (when calm)
5. Identify the REAL reason (not the excuse)
6. Next session: start with half size
TRADER B's post-loss routine:
1. "One more trade to make it back"
2. Bigger size to recover faster
3. Lose more
4. "Okay NOW one more trade"
5. Revenge spiral for 2 hours
6. Blow daily limit
7. Feel terrible
8. "Tomorrow I'll be better"
9. Repeat
same market
same setups
same starting point
completely different outcomes
the difference is 100% in how they handled pain
trader A had a SYSTEM for pain
trader B had HOPE
systems beat hope every single time
here's the brutal truth:
you will lose
that's not the question
the question is: what happens after?
do you have a system that protects you from yourself?
or do you have "willpower" that fails under pressure?
trader A built a pain system
trader B trusted his emotions
one is rich
one is broke
same market
same opportunities
same everything except post-loss protocol
that's a $164,400 difference in 12 months
what's YOUR post-loss routine?
if you have to think about it...
you don't have one
and that's why you're not profitable yet
build the system
If trading were simple, everybody would win — but markets are designed to reward discipline, patience, and knowledge, not shortcuts.
That’s why most people lose: they trade without understanding structure, timing, and risk.
It teaches you how to read charts properly, identify high-probability setups, and stay patient instead of chasing every move.
When you understand the market, emotions lose control and decisions become clear.
Trading is not hard because it is complex — it is hard because it requires thinking differently.
That difference is built through knowledge, not luck.
Dabbling is expensive. It’s specialization that pays.
Stop chasing every ticker, timeframe, and indicator.
Choose a lane. Study it until it’s boring.
Trade it until it’s automatic. Scale it until it’s life-changing.
Boring prints money.
"trading is HARD and takes YEARS"
no it fucking doesn't
you're just emotionally weak and calling it "difficult"
trading is the easiest skill I've ever learned.
meanwhile you've been "learning" for 5 years and still broke
trading ISN'T HARD
following rules when you're losing is hard
not revenge trading after a stop is hard
risking small when you want to go big is hard
but the TRADING?
that shit is braindead simple
the "hard" part is YOU can't control yourself
WHAT YOU CALL "HARD":
learning the strategy
understanding concepts
reading charts
WHAT'S ACTUALLY HARD:
not trading when bored
not doubling size after loss
not moving stop when about to hit
not exiting at 1:1 from fear
the strategy is EASY (if you know who you are learning from)
your psychology is WEAK
the strategy should take you no more then 6 WEEKS
discipline takes "time"
trading isn't hard
you are the problem
how to fix it:
reduce size to $10 trades (losses didn't hurt)
forced 30-min break after losses (couldn't overtrade)
set alerts for entries (couldn't get emotional staring)
a few weeks later: pass your prop challenges
you're saying "trading takes years"
no
SELF-CONTROL takes years for weak people
trading takes 2-3 months if you stop being a pussy
THE ENTIRE STRATEGY:
check daily bias (3 seconds)
align HTF (know wtf you are actually doing)
wait for session (passive)
see sweep (observation)
confirm displacement
enter on FVG/OB (click)
set stop (click)
set target (click)
wait (nothing)
WOW SO HARD
you know what actually happens?
STEP 3: enter early (impatient)
STEP 5: skip it (FOMO)
STEP 6: move it (can't accept loss)
STEP 7: exit 1:1 (scared)
STEP 8: take another trade (can't wait)
the strategy is SIMPLE
you're UNDISCIPLINED
guy in my private discord just got funded
4 years "trading"
never profitable
"this shit is so hard"
showed me his strategy
explained it perfectly in 5 minutes
"so you know the strategy?"
"yeah perfectly"
"then why aren't you profitable?"
"I revenge trade"
"I overtrade when bored"
"I move stops"
"I exit too early"
"so you know what to do, just don't do it?"
"...yeah"
"then trading isn't hard. you're just weak"
3 weeks later:
"you were right. dropped the risk. forced breaks after losses. passed first challenge. trading isn't hard, I was just emotional"
THAT'S ALL OF YOU
you KNOW what to do
you just CAN'T EXECUTE
and instead of saying "I'm emotionally weak"
you say "trading is hard"
to protect your ego
you're blaming the GAME
instead of blaming YOURSELF
actual timeline if you stop being soft:
MONTH 1-2: learn ONE strategy
MONTH 3-4: backtest 200 trades
MONTH 5-6: paper trade strict rules
MONTH 7-8: pass challenges small size
8 MONTHS
not years
if you can't commit to that you're ngmi
but stop saying it's "hard"
it's not hard
you're weak
you're calling your weakness "difficulty"
the strategy is simple
the execution is uncomfortable
discomfort ≠ difficulty
I know 19 year-olds who are funded and make 50k+/month
I know 30 year-olds still "learning"
difference:
19 year-old: "I can't control emotions, let me fix that"
30 year-old: "trading is complex, maybe another course"
one accepts responsibility
one blames complexity
one funded in months
one broke for decades
which are you?
admitting "I'm undisciplined, need to fix it"?
or saying "trading is hard" for 5 years while switching strategies every 3 months?
stop calling simple execution "difficult"
now risk $10 per trade for 90 days and build discipline
or keep saying "it's so hard" while 22-year-olds withdraw $30k monthly
study
my friend who works 9-5 asked why I "stare at my phone" during lunch
showed him my phone: +$2,800 in 35 minutes
he makes $2,800 in 2 weeks
here's why most people will never escape the 9-5:
he went back to his desk
worked until 6pm
drove home in traffic
ate dinner at 8pm
watched netflix until 11pm
slept
repeated
i went back to my "phone"
closed the charts at 11am
gym at noon
dinner at 6pm
slept
repeated
same intelligence
same work ethic
different games
exponentially different lives
but here's the part nobody talks about:
he could learn what I do in 6 months
but he won't
not because he can't afford it
not because he doesn't have time
not because trading is too hard
because trading requires him to:
TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR HIS INCOME
and that's terrifying
in his job:
- someone tells him what to do
- someone pays him Friday regardless
- someone else responsible if things go wrong
- he can blame his boss, the economy, the company
in trading:
- nobody tells you what to do
- nobody pays you if you don't produce
- you're 100% responsible for every outcome
- no one to blame but yourself
the 9-5 isn't just a job
it's a psychological safety net
"i tried my best but my boss doesn't promote me"
"the economy is bad, not my fault"
"the company doesn't pay enough"
always an excuse
always someone else's fault
always protected from full accountability
trading removes all of that
every loss is YOUR fault
every missed trade is YOUR fault
every blown account is YOUR fault
most people can't handle that level of ownership
so they stay in the matrix
getting paid just enough to not quit
working just hard enough to not get fired
blaming someone else forever
if you're reading this and you're still in a 9-5:
i'm not judging you
i did it for 3 years
but ask yourself honestly:
are you there because you want to be?
or because taking 100% responsibility scares you?
the answer determines your future
The irony of markets is that most traders turn bearish right before it’s time to be bullish.
Impatience feels like logic, until it costs you everything.
The patient trader knows the game isn’t about guessing direction, it’s about waiting for the market to reveal it.
When trends are clear, skill wins. When markets are choppy, patience does.
While others get chopped up chasing noise, the patient trader watches quietly, studies flow, and waits.
Then, when the directional bias finally shows its face, he’s not bruised, biased, or broke.
He’s ready to collect what the impatient left on the floor.
I’ve never seen a profitable trader
who didn’t go through hell first.
Blown accounts, Doubt and Pain.
But they didn’t quit.
The struggle builds the skill.
If you’re in pain,
you’re in progress. 👊
When you are doing your year end review make sure you are specific in what you could improve; what could you have done better. Do not do your year end review in a self accusatory manner. Do not let yourself off the hook either. Reframe your thoughts by giving yourself some grace. Ask yourself-what could I have done differently? What could I do better? What can you improve on. Be specific!
Unpopular opinion, but RR is highly over rated, win rate is highly under rated.
High RR does look good on social media (where only selective winners are shown, with massive RR's scored).
But in the real world, higher win rate:
- gives you more confidence
- allows you to risk more
-allows for higher frequency of trading (get out sooner, get back in sooner)
- higher frequency and win rate gives you more instant feedback (if a high win rate edge fails, that's a bigger red flag than a low win rate high RR edge failing, ie., that is more valuable feedback), whether your edge works (or doesn't) - very key in trading, a lot of edge on this platform is faulty.
This is true in trading, investing, probably anything you do in life too. Going for smaller steps and building your life is probably better than trying to go for one gigantic beyond-the-moon step and failing years to do so in the process beforehand.
So despite how "fantastic" it sounds as a written story to hit home runs and perform long grinds with no reward until the home run gain, incremental gain is more stable, mentally and realistically especially in finance.
Those bigger steps, only come once strong foundations are in place.
Focus on win rate first, then RR second.