A lot of women reach out to me asking how I'm going to "do it all" now that I'm having a baby.
My honest answer: I'm not.
I wanted to write this because so many moms tell me they feel like they're failing because they don't have it all at once and it really breaks my heart.
The last twelve years of my life went into building my business and building myself into the leader I am. I'm proud of that. I don't expect myself to put in the same effort over the next ten. Could I? Sure - I could hire every nanny and every service money can buy and keep running at the same pace. I just don't WANT to.
I really want to actually raise my kids and build a family, so I will be making a tradeoff.
It is a fact, not opinion, that you can’t have it all at the same time.
Why: MATH. Depth takes time, and time is finite.
At some point we all have to decide - of the things that matter to me - WHICH MATTERS MORE…NOW.
And then we make a trade.
When you have finite resources, you need to decide where you allocate them against unlimited options. Determining that something is important, but less important TO ME, RIGHT NOW, is not setting. It’s making a decision based on priorities.
Everyone has the ability to make these choices, they're just hard because you feel like you're telling yourself, and everyone who looks at you, that something is not important because you're not prioritizing it. That’s untrue. You’re just saying it's not AS important TO ME, RIGHT NOW.
We work so hard to create optionality in our lives. But having optionality - in and of itself - is not valuable.
Options are only valuable when exercised. And when you exercise those options, you need to walk through one door, which by definition (sometimes), means you cannot walk through another.
We make a commitment by eliminating options. And all the best parts of life sit on the other side of eliminating options and going all in.
When you get married, you eliminate the option of other partners.
When you have kids, you eliminate the option of not having kids.
When you buy a house on the beach, you eliminate the option of having a house on a mountaintop. It doesn't mean you don’t like mountain tops. You just decided that this was more important to you now.
Some decisions are reversible. Others aren't.
To me, right now, I want to have a child and I want to be a present mother. It’s not the choice that everyone will make, or should make - do whatever you want. This is the choice that I’m making. For me. Right now.
And I want every woman who reaches out to me asking what I'm going to know. Because I think the willingness to make a trade prevents you from settling. Because without making a conscious choice, a trade off will be made no matter what - but it won't be based on what we deemed most important, but by what the world around us deemed most convenient. And that might not be what we want most.
This has been pulling on me for some time now and I didn't get a chance to sit down and write it.
TLDR: I will not have it all. I will have what I want most at that time. And that’s perfectly fine with me. I hope you do the same - whatever that is for you.
No matter how much I win in the world's eyes, I still feel the best when I win in my wife's eyes.
My day is never more "made" than when my wife says she thinks I'm awesome for helping her.
I think most guys just want the person we care about most to feel like we helped them.
Do people in Canada even know what GDP per capita means?
It's how productive the average person is - which directly correlates to your INCOME
Americans now earn ALMOST DOUBLE what Canadians earn
The virtue signalling isn't cute Canada. we are losing.
Canada tells UAE it is not ready for its C$70bn investment
Major Projects Office told official Emirati delegation during a UAE-Canada Business Council meeting that Canada lacks "shovel-ready" mega-projects where such capital can actually be deployed.
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🚨 HOLY CRAP, FDA Commissioner Marty Makary CONFIRMED the FDA purposefully lied to the people for nearly 2 decades against dietary fats to help Big Pharma
People avoided fat and ate MORE SUGAR, so Pharma could sell them more drugs.
RFK Jr. just declared open WAR on added sugar
“They suppressed the data for 16 years…Those in the low-fat group had higher rates of heart attacks!”
“We created a generation of children with low protein, high carbohydrates, sugar addiction, and burdened with ultra-processed foods, and what did we do as a medical field? Drugged them at scale!”
“Those days are OVER. We are telling people the truth about food.”
MAHA WILL WIN!
🚨 David Rosenberg predicts the Canadian dollar could collapse to just 62 cents USD.
That would be its lowest level in 24 years — back to 2002 lows.
From the 2021 highs, this would erase a full 25% of its value 👇
#REPORT: Mark Carney is using his old British cell phone number to privately text European leaders, trying to convince them that "the old America isn’t coming back"
ALERT 🟥 The Law Says Deport Zohran Mamdani — The GOP Says Nothing
Under 8 U.S.C. § 1451(a), any naturalized U.S. citizen who obtained citizenship by concealing or misrepresenting ties to terrorist or communist organizations can have that citizenship revoked in federal court.
Once denaturalized, that individual becomes deportable under 8 U.S.C. § 1227 — a process used against Nazi collaborators, Soviet spies, and jihadist fundraisers alike.
That means if Zohran Mamdani — a foreign-born Marxist-Islamic supremacist who publicly glorified the Holy Land Five, convicted Hamas financiers — concealed ideological or organizational ties during his naturalization, the Department of Justice has full legal authority to initiate denaturalization and removal proceedings today.
But instead of enforcing the law, the Republican establishment is doing nothing while Mamdani campaigns to become mayor of New York City — the same man who rapped...
“My love to the Holy Land Five — you better look ’em up.”
Those “Five” were terrorist fundraisers, convicted on 108 federal counts for funneling $12.4 million to Hamas through front “zakat” charities. Mamdani calls them heroes.
🟥 Federal law is clear. GOP cowardice is clearer.
Rep. Andy Ogles (R-TN) formally urged the Attorney General to investigate Mamdani’s potential denaturalization case.
And then — silence. No hearings. No resolutions. No press conferences. Speaker Mike Johnson says nothing. Mitch McConnell hides. The “America First” leadership evaporates.
Meanwhile, Democrats weaponize every agency they control to destroy their political enemies — freezing bank accounts, jailing veterans, and silencing journalists — while Republicans won’t even invoke existing law to remove a Hamas sympathizer openly running America’s largest city.
🟥 This isn’t incompetence - it’s complicity.
If the DOJ refuses to act, it’s admitting that America now protects her enemies and punishes her patriots.
The Holy Land Five funded Hamas. Zohran Mamdani celebrates them. And the GOP does nothing.
Every day they delay, the Red-Green Axis — the alliance of Marxists and Islamic supremacists — tightens its grip.
New York today. Texas tomorrow. America next.
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