Juma Brayan🇰🇪

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[Eric @amerix]

Men,

A man must learn the skill of letting go.

Not every argument needs a winner.

Not every space needs to be filled with your opinion.

Not every wrong needs to be corrected by you.

When you choose your battles carefully, you win the important ones.

#MasculinitySaturday

[Eric @amerix]

When you are broke, nobody calls you

But the moment some coins land in your pocket, you begin receiving funny-funny calls from random girls.

Don't accept.

Switch off your phone and sleep.

The devil is a liar.

Refuse!

[George T. Diano @georgediano]

Men in your 30s, get yourself a beautiful young woman in her early 20s. You’ll live happily, glow differently, and get your financial decisions right. There’s a lot of baggage that comes with older women in their late 20s and 30s. You’ll thank me later.

[Lawrence Kitema @lawrencekitema]

Sometimes you just have to ignore some things for the sake of your peace of mind, even when you have a lot to say. Keep silent, but make sure you learn from their words and actions.

[Ja Leto @_falsi1ke]

Being a man in this generation is crazy, you have to have money just to date a non-virgin woman, who doesn't even know how to cook.

[George T. Diano @georgediano]

As a man, after you cross 30, sit down and study the patterns in your family. Look at what distracted, delayed, or derailed the men before you. Look at what destroyed them. Your father, his brothers, your uncles, older cousins etc... is it booze, is it gambling, is it women, is it recklessly siring everywhere, is it poor financial decisions, did they struggle with deep anger issues, domestic terrorists, did they practice witchcraft and all that.

Sit down and study those patterns,, then make intentional decisions to break those cycles. Remember some of these things are normal vices. Look for a recurring or deep recognizable patterns that are plastered all over men in your family. What brought them down. Do you see a pattern? Now that!

As Joshua Selman always says “As a man, number one thing that will help you live to your potential is knowing what can bring you down”. And you may not run away from your family tree. Refuse to be a victim of repeated patterns. Because they are there.

Whether you know it or not. Whether you recognize them or you don’t. They exist. They didn’t have the knowledge and resources we now have. Honor your progeny. Break out of them. Be made of Gold.

[Eric @amerix]

Money does not destroy relationships.

Money reveals them.

Money reveals

• Discipline.

• Leadership.

• Direction.

• Priorities.

• Character.

Money reveals the quality of decisions being made inside a home.

When money is flowing, many weaknesses remain hidden because life appears stable.

But, then, when pressure arrives, suddenly the arguments begin.

Most people think they are arguing about money.

They are not.

They are arguing about what money has exposed.

The absence of:

• Planning.

• Leadership.

• Vision.

• Discipline.

A drought does not create weak roots, it reveals them.

A woman will patiently live with you when you are broke because she can still see your direction, priorities, discipline and vision.

But if you remain rudderless, disorganized, chaotic and visionless, the marriage will collapse.

It is not the absence of money, it is the absence of leadership.

A storm does not create a weak foundation, it exposes it.

Money does exactly the same thing.

#BetterTogether

[Eric @amerix]

Yote tisa, ya kumi ni hii,

Doh za bibi yako ni kama pesa ya Zimbabwe,

We unajua iko, but haujawahi ona, hautawahi guza, unaskia iko, haujui ina nunua nini, na ni nani anapewa.

Kitu unaeza ona tu, ni WhatsApp status.

But, doh zako ni kama dola, kila mtu anataka.

Jipange.

[Ja Loka @_fels1]

The speed of a person who saw the lion first cannot be the same as that of another person whom the lion saw first. Uwinja maber?

[Kipsambu Tigentiony @KipsambuT]

Driving from Eldoret to Nairobi at night especially with those old Halogen headlights is like dining in the dark with the devil himself.

[Lovers’ Guide 💟 @guideforlovers]

It's safer to trust a blind man driving a car than to trust a woman with male friends

[☣︎ @BigMo_tion]

Some people visit my past more than I do. I don't live there anymore baby.. I sold the whole building.

[T-Bg @_iamtbag]

ikifika pahali dem amekuambia you're such a nice guy inafaa ukae chini ufikirie maisha yako vizuri kwanza

[Eric @amerix]

Men,

How to revenge a cheating wife:

• End the relationship

• Disconnect from her and her relatives

• Focus on your work

• Approach more women

• Never look back

You may forgive, but don't forget.

#MasculinitySaturday

[99 Majik @99Majik]

If you want to go far in life, master being bored, silent, and alone.

[Dr. Miguna Miguna @MigunaMiguna]

I don’t like Junet Mohammed because he is a pathetic crook, clown and mediocre opportunist. However, @rigathi’s claim that he and @WilliamsRuto paid Junet Kshs. 5,000,000 to sabotage Raila Odinga’s 2022 presidential election cannot be true, and is frankly, churlish. Kshs. 5,000,000 could not have made Junet undermine a candidate who would have appointed him a senior CS!

Even lying requires a bit of intelligence. Rigathi is becoming too desperate to be taken seriously!

[MethoDman @polo_kimanii]

Na kwani You guys are seriously still paying dowry? Shida ya wanaume hatunanga umoja. Mimi naye heri nikufe singo kama Yesu. I am not paying parents for doing their job,who will pay my parents for raising me. Na kwanza vile baba yangu aliteseka akitega omena na neti ya mosquito

[George T. Diano @georgediano]

You have no business having kids if you're poor. It’s those mumus who come from poor backgrounds who are being hired as goons. Poverty and violence go hand in hand.

[Eric @amerix]

Men,

If you are broke,

If you are mentally fragmented,

If you are still figuring out your mission and vision,

DO NOT GET INTO A LONG-TERM COMMITMENT in a relationship.

DO NOT IMPREGNATE A WOMAN.

Zip up. You are broke and broken.

#MasculinitySaturday

[Shola 👑 @itsSh0la]

I don’t even like the idea of 50/50, I can’t operate with it, but a woman that will comfortably sit back and watch me pay all bills, struggle and keep her money to herself can never be the woman for me.