I had somebody tell me that because I'm quick to leave a situation alone that I must didn't love or care about the person. Listen, I'm always prepared to never speak to you again. I can love you to death and never speak to you or on you again. I love you (1/2)
Once you stop posting regularly on IG you just never go back to doing it. You get comfortable being in real time, realize how sharing every detail of your life from the moment you wake up everyday isn't realistic and you feel overexposed when you try to resume back to those ways.
It’s always “Cancers are clingy” but it’s really a different type of hurt when they finally decide to ice you out. No one ghosts or does silent treatment better than a wronged Cancer placement. Sure they’re caring.. until they’re not lol.
@Barri_14@itskrisbruh I really believe deep down people are becoming less empathetic… we live in a time with plethora of information that can help people be more informed of respecting lives in a way no other point of history had and people actively choose to ignore it purely bc they can… it sucks.
you get over things quickly? oh so you’re accustomed to avoiding how you truly feel so that you can brush everything under the rug because allowing yourself to feel discomfort would mean you’re no longer in control of the situation, so you’d rather just forgive & forget?
I’m naturally a distant person. No you didn’t do anything to me, no I’m not mad at you, & no you’re not cut off. I just don’t be pressed to talk to ppl😭
the amount of confidence i’ve gained since cutting casual sex out of my life is ridiculous. knowing my energy is worth more that a wyd text is amazing😌
don’t relinquish that control so easily. you were self-focused before they entered your life right? don’t abandon your friends, hobbies and quiet time just because you have this new addition in your life. please. regardless of how much you care, a healthy bond needs balance.