I swear, females can feel things long before they actually find out things. They can feel when they're being played & they can feel when their 'friends' are being shitty. They can feel when something isn't right.
I'm at the stage in my life where I don't want to be crazy in love anymore. I want to be calm in love, patient in love, happy in love, & understood in love.
Life is too short to waste time wondering what other people think about you. At first, if they had better things goin on in their lives,they wouldn't have time to sit around and talk about you.What's important to me is not others' opinions of me,but my opinion of myself.
Give things time. Don't let how things appear make you forget how much is already happening in your favor. Just cause you don't see it all instantly coming to life, don't mean great things aren't on the way or in works for you. Be patient & faithful. Keep believing.
We think we want sex. It's not always about sex. It's intimacy we want. To be touched. Looked at. Admired. Smiled at. Laugh with someone. Feel safe. Feel like someone's really got you.
If a man starts ignoring you just quietly move on. Don't send no long angry messages to make him "see your worth". No "he won't find someone like me" or "he will regret it". Collect yourself and leave. You deserve a love that is sure of you from the beginning.
There is a difference between a person who hurts you by making a mistake & a person who hurts you by continuing a pattern. Mistakes can be forgiven. Patterns should be broken.
Sometimes you have to look at your life & realize that where you are right now is enough. You've come so far to get here. Remember that. Enjoy it. Enjoying your life right now is how you elevate it even higher.
Nothing can stop the blessings that are coming your way. Its already yours. You are chosen for your gift. It's done. Focus on that and watch your blessings multiply.