Justine Mfulama

Certified Dating and Relationship Coach that helps women to attract and maintain a healthy and godly relationship.

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Sometimes I wish my brain was like my laptop’s hard drive. Just drag and drop memories you don’t need anymore into trash.

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@dirtywhiteups 😂😂😂

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@Listen2Tony 🤣🤣🤣

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You know what is really scary… That most men will call men who are emotionally aware and available “Simps” and “Squares”.

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You deserve to be with someone that doesn’t make you Google “how to get him to commit.”

[Justine Mfulama @justinemfulama]

Someone can love you and still not choose you. So make sure to choose yourself.

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People always say “Love finds you when you are not looking.”

Welp, that explains why so many of us miss the red flags.

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Please stop finding excuses for a man that does not want to be with you. Trust me, he knows you’re dope! You are just not who he wants. Now it’s time to remember your worth and move on.

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I love how we’re all boss women that will confidently negotiate at work. But then get stuck providing wifey benefits on a girlfriend salary. 🙃 #datingadvice #datingtips #RelationshipAdvice #relationshiptips

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More interested in how my life feels than how it looks to others.

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Just because a person doesn’t want you, it doesn’t take away from your worth.

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When a guy shows you that he’s not interested, don’t call and text him to see if he changed his mind.

[Justine Mfulama @justinemfulama]

Please stop seeing someone’s lack of interest as a challenge to convince them of your worth.

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PSA: It does not take a man years to know if you’re The One he wants to be with or not… He lying sis!

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If I have to explain to you why #BlackLivesMatter , we most likely can’t be friends.

[Justine Mfulama @justinemfulama]

I pray that you stop holding on to relationships that drain you.

[Justine Mfulama @justinemfulama]

Please stop going for men that are not sure about you. You deserve to be with someone that is excited to spend his life with you.

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Red flags are not always character flaws and toxic behavior. They are also the subtle clues and experiences that show you that he’s not for you.

[Justine Mfulama @justinemfulama]

It’s not hard to recognize when someone is no longer for you. It’s just hard to accept it.

[Justine Mfulama @justinemfulama]

Let love find you. Stop chasing it, forcing it, and begging for it.