I wish people understood that when someone seems to overexplain, it's often because of how much they've been misunderstood. They're trying to give you information that they assume is hard to understand based on how they've been treated. This deserves compassion, not criticism
I really hate people who dig up everyone’s past just to invalidate their current success. It’s so sad. People grow and evolve, and their past doesn’t determine their future.
unpopular opinion: people who become loners are not a red flag. they are often people who have had terrible experiences with humans and who now value their peace.
I cannot stress enough how important it is to speak up for yourself when someone is crossing your boundaries or dismissing your feelings. You are your biggest advocate. No one else can read your mind or feel what you feel.
Saw a post that said, “You can be the prettiest shade of Green, but you’ll never be enough for someone whose favorite color is Blue.”
Compatability is so important and mostly overlooked.
girl to girl.... put you first. hit the gym consistently. keep your nails done. eat GOOD food. do the hobbies you enjoy. take your vitamins. 9-10 hours of sleep. buy that new workout set. delete distractions. water your grass so much that you don't give a shit about anyone