John Leu

Director, Data Solutions @CreditKarma. Former BD @Google and @Twitter. Wolverine and Cavalier.

[Brett Caughran @FundamentEdge]

We tell young people in our society that end of the rainbow is retirement at 65.

We ought to tell them that "there is going to be this short but beautiful golden window from roughly age 3 to roughly age 12 where your kids are not only easy (comparatively to bottles & diapers), but are going to be these beautiful little creatures and it will pain your heart to be away from them for too long. So, prepare in your 20's, financially and career wise, to build that flexibility into that chapter of your life".

You don't get another shot at living the "golden window". And, for me, leaning hard into that golden window has made everything else in my life feel fairly insignificant in comparison. I have made plenty of mistakes as a father, but what I won't have is the regret of having been distracted and absent from these formative years. In some cases, that has required financial sacrifices (declining a particular career opportunity that would have required relocation), but I personally have zero regrets.

I also hear from some ambitious & successful people with a 4 year old that say "I've lost my ambition, I am so immersed in fatherhood". At least for me, and a number of my friends, it comes back. You can't keep an ambitious person down and if you have the fire, hanging at a playground on too many Tuesday afternoons is going to feel like torture after too long.

My three boys are approaching 13, 11 & 9, and it's much different than 7, 5 & 3. This summer, for example, they slept until 11am and I hard an unencumbered 6am-12pm to work (being on PT helps), then got another great window 7-11pm, but was able to be present in the heart of the day, then weeks when they were at basketball camp, etc. It gets easier, your time frees up again (there's a sadness to that too), but I'm back to working as intensely as I did pre-kids just because my day to day presence requires fewer hours than it did before (also, my wife is just superbly wonderful). And that is the beautiful gift of entrepreneurship (or at least my sort of business), the ability to deliver still a high level of output but work that around your life rather than the opposite.

TLDR, grind before, and grind after. Prepare for the golden window.

[John Leu @jwleu]

@DhruvMishra1607 @grok what is the cause of the fire

[John Leu @jwleu]

Barrel House Tavern on #Yelp: Come for the amazing views, overpay for the average food. Benedict was underwheling, … https://t.co/c70QIPb4bU

[John Leu @jwleu]

Looking for recommendations on Italy please. Merci beaucoup.

[George D. @xdelmar59]

She literally paid everyone in the room
#noDevos

[Sam Machado @samscenarist]

I Got This. #TrumpBan #MuslimBan #cartoon

[Gavin Newsom @GavinNewsom]

As a UC Regent I'm appalled at your willingness to deprive over 38,000 students access to an education because of the actions of a few.

[Geoff #FromDC Crawley @VoiceOfThePhan]

Who wore it better? @IvankaTrump

[Sarah Silverman @SarahKSilverman]

DRUMPF is NEGGING us and we've fallen for it - we're obsessed w this candidate we had no intention of ever acknowledging #TheGame

[Zach N. Hofer-Shall @znh]

#MakeDonaldDrumpfAgain

[Not Real Donald Trump @RealDonalDrumpf]

It's not just a campaign. It's a movement. @LastWeekTonight #MakeDonaldDrumpfAgain https://t.co/AgWm9zRk6X

[Coach Harbaugh @jimharbaugh]

Equally excited to announce our 2016 Offensive Class #NewBlue

[Ricky Gervais @rickygervais]

Never mind an Emmy or an Oscar.... @MakingAMurderer deserves a Nobel Prize. The greatest documentary I've ever seen.

[John Leu @jwleu]

Happy bday @thedawsonMD. He deserves free fries @McDonalds

[Coach Harbaugh @jimharbaugh]

Thinking of Bo today! And every day! He continues to be a daily source of inspiration!#Winner #GoBlue

[John Leu @jwleu]

@thedawsonMD @McDonalds @McDonaldsCorp he's right. Also extend breakfast deliver from Thailand to the US.

[John Leu @jwleu]

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[Taiwan@Missouri @LeuSophia]

@jwleu just realize I can press the "heart" to mean I like it. I will just press "heart" instead of posting.

[Taiwan@Missouri @LeuSophia]

me at St. Pat parade - Celebration of Nations team.