@brittilina I have 3 kids. I had one baby shower. If you are a first time mom it is reasonable to have a larger shower. Reality is harsh. Cliques exist, inside and outside the church. I am sorry you are hurt.
@AngelporrasXx I lurk here, no one reads my posts or possibly even sees them. I would offer 2 small perhaps worthless pieces of advice. Be kind to yourself and forgive your sister. I don’t know either of you but you are both suffering in different ways.
@AngelporrasXx Dementia is a monster. My husband was diagnosed with it last year. You are suffering. In many ways her death would be easier…. Then the guilt descends like a cloud. I pray God be with you, give you comfort and peace with a decision that only you can make