You're in relationships with people where you're the one pushing to make it work, you feel exhausted, and are on call for other people's issues.
How To Stop Being A "Fixer":
Idk who needs to hear this but years 18-23 were the darkest time of my life and I was terrified the entire time bc everyone said they were the “best years of my life” and then shit got better bc my brain finished growing and I started actually taking care of myself
I said to my wife "Do you think anyone will commit suicide because they could not get an abortion?"
She instantly replied "yes."
Then she added "there will be all those boyfriends and husbands that murder them because they couldn't get one too" and that shook my fucking world.