Honestly, the way people are keeping quiet about Borno children, the same people who were daily crying about Oriire children, baffles me mehn.
We have no collective conscience in this country. It's a total eyesore!!!
How do non-petty people do it?
I’m such a petty person and no matter how much I fight it, the urge to “show them how it feels” is always so consuming and almost irrepressible 🫠🫠
I need to change fr 🥲
maybe the most romantic thing someone can ever give you is not butterflies; maybe it is certainty.
knowing that one difficult conversation will not make them leave.
knowing their affection does not disappear when their mood changes.
knowing you don’t have to perform to remain worthy of their love.
butterflies are beautiful, and chemistry matters. still, nothing compares to the person who allows your nervous system to rest.
Hello !
You might just need this.
Please Read.
When you work with a leader or someone that stretches you beyond your comfort zone, and truly wants you to be a better version of yourself,
You have no idea what God is doing for you.
My late mentor, Pastor Eskor Mfon was never really
a professional musician per se, but was a great worshipper and one that had an ear for good music.
He would come into our choir room after we had spent hours rehearsing. He’d sit, cross His legs, rest his jaws on his palm, close his eyes and listen to what we had done. After a while, he’d shake his head, smile and heave an interesting sigh “aaaaahhhh !”, and then say to us “okay okay well done o, but we can’t give God this kind of worship tomorrow, let’s start again…” And believe me, another 2-3 hours of work…. He’d tell us, “you know we can’t take people to a place we have not been to ourselves…”
He would share scriptures, explain what ministry was all about, then sit with us as we slugged it out.
Anyway, those days would later become the foundation of my music ministry today.
Hmmm, There were days I thought “this stress is just too much” just to lead worship ??? But what did I know ? Poor boy ! My eyes opened one day, and I caught it.
The inheritance I got from him was not money and material things, even though he took good care of us. But the values, principles, work ethic, mind shift, wisdom, spiritual intelligence and understanding, emphasis on prayer, word, purity, integrity, character, excellence etc.
Today I honour him everywhere I go, because in hindsight, He was God sent - To a young man who only had talent, but with very little or no sense of direction.
So, to anyone out there, connecting with this post and perhaps in a similar place, I say receive GRACE to maximize the moment. Learn and glean all you can now, never despise the process, instead appreciate and honour it. For not everyone is privileged to have another man or woman who leave their own thing to sit on your matter, just to make sure you excel in life. It is a blessing !
And in case it appears to be taking longer than it should, may be, just maybe. you are cut out for the BIG TIME. And in no distant future we would be reading your own inspiring story.
But Please note ! Only make sure the person or leader is one that meets the criteria above - I.e, one who truly desires to see a better version of you and wants you to fulfill your prophetic destiny. And Not just one who seeks to hijack your life, control it and put in under lock and key.
Blessings
🙂
Wdym you're not talking to your partner everyday telling them everything' that's happened that day...let my baby not call me every single day first. I'll show him what soap does to the eye.
No matter how hard I try to act out, I still don’t have it in me to be a mean person. It somehow just comes off as nice or normal.
And I hate that very very much.
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