the key word is "choose".
healing is an intentional decision that only you can make it for yourself.
it will require conscious & consistent effort from you.
it's not going to be easy. it's going to be hard, & painful.
but hey... choosing healing means choosing YOU.
you absolutely do not have to be ‘fully healed’ to be worthy of healthy relationships or friendships. there is no such thing as ‘fully healed’, anyway. as long as you are self-aware, inviting in calm and mature connections can be a relationally healing experience in itself.