Security in every form is what men are to provide ceaselessly for their women and their offspring. A wise man can handle all that. If you're a man and can't handle that then you're a "learner" in the words of Nigerians. Go learn how to handle women effectively, because you need!
"Many an object is not seen, though it falls within the range of our visual ray, because it does not come within the range of our intellectual ray, i.e., we are not looking for it. So, in the largest sense, WE FIND ONLY THE WORLD WE LOOK FOR."
βHenry David Thoreau
As long as you're walking by infallible principles that govern this life, like fairness, equity and social justice, trust that I am with you. Abandon those principles and you're on your own. No hard feelings.
There's a world of difference between loyalty to people and being loyal to correct principles.
Principles don't change, but people and their values change. As a matter of fact some change like Charmeleons.
As much as I possibly can, I integrate my life around correct principles.
As long as you're walking by infallible principles that govern this life, like fairness, equity and social justice, trust that I am with you. Dessert those principles and you're on your own.
Here, on the internet, what you can practically deliver, the value you can add -your sabificate, as Nigerians will say, not your certificate, will almost always be the determinant of what you can earn.
Someone said some folks are taking to pastoral ministry because they can't find employment. Hmmm, but, truth be told, hunger is not funny. I totally understand, but please no need for hunger due to unemployment in this crazy economy to become anyone's impetus to go into ministry.
Now the world is replete with opportunities on the internet to meaningfully and gainfully engage, making money, even from home, just by learning and effectively executing certain steps, and you' re in business to the glory of God and shame of the devil!
Well, they say success is at the far end of failure. So, to all fathers I say keep trying, doing your utmost best, to succeed at it for the good of all. It's not easy, but it's possible. The world needs good fathers.
Happy Fathers' Day to all of us.
I pray for those who desire to be fathers to have their desire granted, even if that means taking up the grand and noble role in the life of a child who by reason of circumstances have no father.