@Bamioaa@faeishh it doesn’t make them less stupid or delusional, though, it’s just going to do worse for them while soothing their brain
and if they sinned they should look forward to being a better person not looking up to some nonexistent creature
@jonjix123az@charliedompporn@juice_bbox@Lucainderr what r u saying 😭😭😭 all im trying to say is that women fetishizing gay relationships doesnt make them a fujoshi, and fujoshi≠enjoying rape and problematic yaoi, they can be a fan of unproblematic media
@upper_pp@AGreatDreamer@Gingie_Em@razorgrrrl we have the capability and ability to reproduce, but we aren’t “wired” to do it. also, yes, people who have children instinctually have the need to protect/take care of them. but the ones who don’t dont necessarily have any need to do it.
@upper_pp@AGreatDreamer@Gingie_Em@razorgrrrl i’d like to hear how you would explain the fact that nobody knows what to do when having a first born if they haven’t read about it first, or have been taught, instinctually they would already have it at the top of their head, but they don’t
@upper_pp@AGreatDreamer@Gingie_Em@razorgrrrl due to the fact that humans are social creatures. the instincts to care for *your* young is because of hormones and chemical changes in your body, it ensures you won’t leave your child. however, before having children, there’s no proof people have maternal instincts
@upper_pp@AGreatDreamer@Gingie_Em@razorgrrrl for example how survival instinct works everyday for most people, its something engraved that you cannot live without and is built-in, but the care and love for a child is not built-in. love and empathy is taught through socialization
@upper_pp@AGreatDreamer@Gingie_Em@razorgrrrl no, im not trying to seem like some activist or like im actively pushing that women shouldnt be mothers, im simply saying something that i found to be true because instinct is far different from a drive. if we instinctually all wanted children, there’d be far more than now
@upper_pp@AGreatDreamer@Gingie_Em@razorgrrrl it has literally explained how to differentiate instinct from motivation and i think id rather believe science and psychology than a random twitter dude
@upper_pp@AGreatDreamer@Gingie_Em@razorgrrrl knowing how to comfort and love a baby comes from interaction, it is not a built-in manual. you can even guess that yourself with how many women are absolutely horrible with children
@upper_pp@AGreatDreamer@Gingie_Em@razorgrrrl support, which can also happen in men but its stronger in women. the brain eventually adapts to parenting through experience and not feeling an immediate emotional bond with children or even your child is completely normal