My friend saw a guy she liked and immediately started forming hard-to-get.
The guy asked for her number.
She said, “I don’t normally give my number to people.”
He said, “Okay.”
And walked away. 😭
She stood there for like 10 seconds waiting for him to beg.
The Prophet ﷺ identified the single most important quality to look for in a friend.
It is not loyalty.
It is not kindness.
It is not even deen on the surface.
Once you hear it, you will look at your circle differently.
Le Prophète ﷺ a dit :
« Lorsque Allah aime quelqu'un, Il le soumet aux épreuves. Non pas pour le rendre malheureux, mais pour le purifier et le rapprocher de Lui.»
📚Rapporté par At-Tirmidhi
Hasan al-Basri رحمه الله said:
“Beware of entering upon a day having tomorrow or other future days as your main concern and worry. (If you do so) you will increase in anxiety and difficulty.”
📖 - [Al-Hilyah 2/139]