This reminds me of a story Oprah told on her show. She says her and a good friend were beefing and she was so sure the said friend is sad and morosed about the fight, only to see the friend laughing and buying diamonds at Tiffany’s. Please always know, we are buying diamonds at Tiffany’s. Life. Goes. On 😘
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to understand the psychology or behaviour behind why someone hurt you. In fact, that’s often a huge part of healing.